I take it you're not really 100% gay, then?Geo said:I did not vote b/c my knowledge is second-hand just what I hear my G/F discuss at grl-parties but I *heard* that girth is more favorable. One woman K. said her guy was long but kind of skinny and (her words this cracks me up!) it just goes "squish squish squish" and doesn't do much for her lol. My G/F says after a good romp "you felt like you were this wide i'm so open" ~motioning with hands wide~ so I guess that's good for her and that's all that counts for me personally. I am not super-long but pretty wide at the base like the thickness of my wrist. So maybe it's true. Of course I think all thing considered a lady like both!!!