thingsteal: Last night my wife and I were driving back from a Thanksgiving trip and the topic veered into the oral sex I gave to her a few nights before. She talked about how she has different levels of intensities for her orgasms via oral sex. We decided to adopt the rating for tornadoes as an example. F1 being a small orgasm and F5 being a mindblower. She said the other night I gave her two F4s and a lot of F1 to F2s. I was at it for almost an hour. It was a good evening. Oral sex is a huge treat for her. She wouldn't mind it every night, and occasionally I'll do it every night for a couple weeks up until she gets her period. I thoroughly enjoy doing it and reiterated this again last night while in the car. Lapping up her juices and feeling her pussy pulse on a nightly basis is like winning the lottery, and having a stiff neck the next day is a badge of honor for me. Quite often it will lead to sexual intercourse at her discretion, especially if she has had trouble achieving orgasm. The conversation then turned to her performing oral sex on me. She was honest and said that it's a chore that she doesn't enjoy because of my size, but that she does it somewhat out of guilt because I service her so often and usually for an hour each time. Me? I get oral sex to orgasm maybe 3 or 4 times a year. It can't last longer than about 10 minutes before her mouth gets tired. I can't cum in her mouth. If I do accidentally get an initial shot in she turns the act into a handjob and spits out the cum. Her reasoning was that if she has a choice between oral sex and regular intercourse she'll choose intercourse every time. She'd rather have it in her pussy than her mouth. We talked about for quite a while. I said, "don't you think it's a bit unfair?" that I give and give and give but I rarely get the same thing in return even though I probably enjoy oral as much as she does? She replied that while I love to give her oral, she doesn't feel the same way about giving a blowjob to me. Now I'm not the kind of guy who would stop giving her oral just because she won't blow me, but it does bother me a bit. And there are many times when I'd rather have regular sex but she insists on having me give her oral sex instead. And if I had a choice between giving her oral sex and me not getting anything, I'd roll out the old tongue any day of the week. Ladies, do you think she's being a little too selfish? I think she might be. Any advice?