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Holy cow. I am often surprised by how ignorant and uninformed some many people here on LPSG are when it comes to sexuality. Just because a straight guy says he wants to suck dick does not automatically make him gay or bi-sexual. Sometimes the ignorance here astounds me.
I also think there is a huge double standard when it comes to strait men and other men. Not just here, but in society as well. The moment a man shows interest or looks at another guy a certain way he is all of a sudden labeled gay. But when a gay man either hooks up with or has hooked up with a woman no one thinks twice to call him bi-sexual or straight. To my knowledge, many gay men have slept with women, especially when they were younger and figuring things out.
Or like the poster originally asked, they did something because they were curious about it and wanted to see what it felt like. As I've gotten older I've come to realize I'm one of the few gay men who has actually never messed around with a women. I so far have only had sex with men and do not feel a need to have sex with a women. Now do I wonder what it is like? Yes, of course I do. And would I have sex with a women if the chance arose? Yes, I would. Now I'm sure it would be awful and terrible and something I would never do again. Even if I did though, that would not change the fact I am gay. And at this point in my life I would never consider myself bisexual. You can call me a gay man who has thought about having sex with a woman, but the key part is gay man. And that would not change just because of one sexual encounter with a woman.
As for the OP original question I may just answer him in private.
I know a lot of 100% gay men who would disagree with wanting to fuck a woman if given the chance and would question their own sexuality if they had the desire to eat pussy or anything else on a woman.
I know a lot of 100% straight men who would disagree that sucking another guys cock is still considered a straightish act. I could not care less what this guy does in his private life.
Most people on this planet are some variant of bi-sexual and very few fall on one extreme or the other (100% straight OR 100% gay) but typically what defines one as 100% is their distaste for anything sexual with the opposite or same sex.
You would obviously disagree with this but we can't live in a world where any parameters (invisible or otherwise) don't exist because we are afraid to offend a "straight" man who wants to suck cock. I am akin to believe that the only people who come out of the woodworks to say that 100% straight men can fuck, suck and fondle other men is still be 100% straight say it in order to gain more straight men to their side because they are so coveted in the gay male community.
Telling straight men they are straight for doing homosexual things is just lying to benefit the cause. To get more straight men to fuck gay men.