giving a HARD handjob

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  1. sandie305

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    Hi all,

    Last night i was giving my boyfriend (just over 9 and thick) a handjob and i decided to be much harder than normal and rougher... I got a real kick out of this...even when he said "not to hard' i didn't stop.
    I thought to myself his penis some times hurts me so now its pay back!
    He came buckets!!
    Am i weird?
    Have you ever been hard rough on your mans penis?
    If your a guy what do you think about this?
    Have you ever had it done?
    thanks
     
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    Yeah I think what you did was fantastic. That's probably what most guys would say they WANT a woman to do to their dick.....

    With their hands, that is ;)




     
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    cool ever had it done to you?
     
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    Your a sadistic bitch....





    When are you available to do that to me? lol !!!
     
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    never had it done b4?
     
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    hmmm awesome!
     
  7. Cobalt Blue

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    Sandie, speaking from a personal point of view, most women I have been with don't even approach the firmness of touch I enjoy. I like a really really hard squeeze in an upward direction, i.e. from the base toward the head, pulling the foreskin over the glans. I usually have to squeeze their hand with my hand whilst they are gripping my shaft because they simply don't believe that they are not going to pull it off! I also like a really hard vice-like grip around the base of the shaft with no movement - this gets me huge and ready to release the massive amounts of spunk that flies from the cock.
    I happen to think blowjobs are overrated: Nothing turns me on as much as a woman who really knows how to jerk a big cock..
    girls, be firm, it's not going to snap off!
     
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    I dunno I am not a fan of handjobs, and if a woman decided to be extra rough, even with me expressing displeasure she will quickly find her naked ass on my front steps.
     
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    I always tell the guy to squeeze my hand to show my how hard I can grasp. That way I'm not hurting them. I learned the hard way with my best friend I did the upward deep thrust up and he whimpered ouch lol.
     
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    I love a rough handjob but there's one thing that my partner needs to be careful with and that's my frenulum. You don't want to tear it.
     
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    I take a grip that's a little firm for some men, not out of any desire to hurt but because cocks are just so yummy I can't help squeezing a little.
     
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    I'm sorry, but I just can't imagine a handjob too hard - unless she has a firm grasp on my balls, too. As long as it starts slow and builds to a crescendo, I have never asked a lover to slow down or ease up on a handjob.

    Now, a blowjob can definitely be too hard, especially if there are teeth involved.
     
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    I think next time his penis is hurting you he's probubly gonig to be less inclined to ease up
    not a good road to go down w/out talking about it first....
     
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    I like to take a firm grip, but yeah I know what you mean. I love squeezing and being rough with a it, especially really hard ones. Thing I've noticed is that most men like the shaft handled rough but the head is the tender part. I try to keep that in mind.
     
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    I like a firm grip, but don't really like it rough or hard. Just starts to get uncomfortable to me. I'd say I prefer a firm grip and a slower pace. Most women seem to go way too fast, which does nothing for me and becomes painful. And it really isn't gonna make me cum any faster either, which is what I think they believe.
     
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    I wouldn't say I like it rough so much as hard. Getting a woman to grip it 'hard' can be difficult. They seem to be afraid of hurting you. I just have them grip it firmly and increase the pressure until I say it's too much (it's never been too much). Then, they see they can't hurt me/it. Being handled with a firm hand can be heaven.
     
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    i really dont like it it hurts, it feel like they are tryin to rip it off or something
     
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    See, ive always found guys say "no teeth" but 99% of the time if i run my teeth oh so lightly up his cock he loves it. YES, first he will say stop that but tell him to shut up and enjoy he'll eat that shit up.

    As for hand jobs..if he says its to hard, then you've got it exactly right.:tongue:

    Think about the abuse a cock receives during sex and tell me it cant take a little extra pressure of a tight hand. Its just a case of pushing them past the point of what they are used to.
     
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    I think men are very different when it comes to how hard they want their dick to be grabbed and stroked. I had one tell me I was hurting him when I was being a lot more gentle than usual, while another thought I was much too gentle and just grabbed my hand and squeezed it like a madman around his cock (actually, my underarm cramped up after a while of stroking him with this hard tight grip, and I have pretty strong arms for a woman).

    Thus I don't assume a hard grip is always the best, and I always respect it if the man tells me to go softer with him. After all, I expect my partners to do the same for me in case things are getting too rough for my taste.
     
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    firm is nice, but don't treat it like an almost-empty ketchup bottle.
     
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