Giving another guy oral?

[tiagra]

You can tell when someone is really into it or is just going through the motions. No bigger turn on than when your partner is into it, no bigger turn off than when you can sense they are faking it.

As to how it feels for the giver__each cock is a different experience__shape, smell, hardness, look, excitement level etc__all of this contributes to how much i want to eat it.

 

[dc9]

All I know, is that I loved sucking cock before, but now; being in love with my man, I am so into pleasing him. I just love looking into his eyes or watching his face as I go down on him.
We just dig each other.
I am so glad that I joined this site, because at it's core, it IS all about the support that we give to one another.
I love the realationships that I have built with my dear friends.
and there are so many of you who have sent me your love and support, from Unabera09, 8060, Zip28,Rockabilly, Tardis69,underwatertre just to name a few.
Thanks for your love and support, I truly appreciate it.

 

[bigbadger]

I agree with most of what has been posted here. Personally for me, I love giving head and am as equally turned on by it as the person I am doing it to is. Again, I think the most important thing is whether or not you are into it. Regardless of technique or experience being into it and loving it will make all the difference in the world. I am guessing that since it is your first time with a cock in your mouth, you will probably be nervous or anxious. Relax, and hopefully that will go away as you start enjoying what you are doing. And like others have said, be in tune to what your partner is doing/saying. He will give you clear signs as to what he really likes and is enjoying. As far as describing the experience, there really is nothing better than having a guys hot, throbbing, slick penis going in and out of your mouth/throat until he blows.

 

[dougdong]

what about sucking really big dicks? any pointers? a new buddy of mine is 9 and THICK
which is far bigger than what I am used to. there is no way i can deep throat, although I sure as hell like trying. He enjoys what I do, I jsut wonder if one of you large hung men can give a cocksucker some pointers, or some of you suckers who have expereince with large hung can do the same. thanks all.

 

[B_stevekorgman]

Sucking a large dick can have it's challenges, but done right, can be fantastic for both. When I suck a large one, I really concentrate on just the head. You should be able to wrap your lips around the head and swirl your tongue around it. Try putting a little flavored lube on your fingertips and massage/stroke the rest of the shaft while sucking on the head. Together, those actions will make the recipient feel as if the whole cock is being worked on - and it is! For variety, use some long licking strokes from the balls up the bottom of the shaft to the tip, once again focusing on that beautiful mushroom head that I hope he has for you. These techniques have always worked for me. One escort told me (and I kind of believed him) that I was at the top of his list for "excellence in blow-jobs" - a title that I'm rather proud of.

 

[B_qualitymn]

When you suck a dick, you have to want to suck a dick. Lousy head is terrible. I've always performed my head like I would want it performed on me...with a lot of fuckin' gusto, lol. You can't go into like you're afraid or nervous. Those are the butterflies that you need to shake off before you get on knees or however you choose to do it. You have to love all of his dick; the head, the shaft, the balls, pubes, sac...the whole nine yards with your mouth. You blow him like you want someone to blow you. That's only fair. Imagine yourself being the best cocksucker on Earth and that little boost might bring a technique out in you that you didn't know you had.

You know that 'feeling' that you get over your body before you bust a nut, have an orgasm, or however you choose to describe it? You can sense that same thing from the dick in your mouth. That's when you make an executive decision to either stroke it out, let it go and let him finish, or swallow that goodness. That's only advisable if you KNOW HIM and ABOUT HIM. Love yourself. Protect yourself. And while you're suckin' his dick, use the rest of your body to explore the rest of his and do a stellar job. Fellation is an acquired taste. I hope my words helped to explain to you what it could be like. Happy sucking!

A Great discription 8060
I totally recognize your explanantion.
It's just like that!
You should be a top sucker, like for me I am One

 

[conntom]

Would love to try it.......really. Anyone in the boston area sporting 7 plus who is cool would get one hell of a bj ...

 

[B_theOtherJJ]

Its a life changing experience. you will see God ! Or a nice, creamy load if you do it right.....Leave the suckee happy and smiling, and wanting MORE.

 

[bigbulgelicker45]

As someone who has given many (and I mean MANY!) blowjobs over the years the ine thing I can say is you do have to be comfortable with who you are giving head to. I think that's the first rule of thumb and you should be honest too (if asked about your experience).

In 2000, I had posted an ad for a regular buddy and to my surprise I ended up doing him for almost six years. It was supposed to be an "occasional" thing but I ended up doing him sometimes seven days a week. Not that I was complaining but a lot of the time it was the same thing. I'd get the call, go to his place, small talk and then I was on my knees.

You could say I had the "ultimate fantasy guy." He was a former firefighter, 6'3, moustache, hairy chest and was packing about 7.5 but something was missing after about a year, so I spiced it up by getting him a pair of boxer briefs (a size too small) and when he put them on I couldn't wait to service him! Since he was "confused" about his sexuality one day he surprised me and there were two other guys at his place.

I was doing his one buddy and then to my surprise he joined in and I spent time on both of them and going back and forth. His buddies left and I finished him off. Unfortunately, we never had another night like that again.

He passed away at the end of 2006 (at 38) and since then I've never really met anyone who wanted to get head everyday. Just the occasional couple of times a month variety. I tried to figure out just home many blowjobs I had given him throughout the years and I lost count. I'm sure it was way over a thousand (or close to it).

If you're just starting out I think you should take it slow before going in balls deep and a slicker dick is easier to play with than a dry one. Alcohol and poppers can also relax you!

As far as hung guys go (9 or better), there are two I've been servicing semi regularly. In order to do it I have to make sure my throat is relaxed then slowly slick up his dick. Since I'm the one in control I have to make the decision when to deep throat him and when I do it throws him off guard and he can enjoy it much better.

Once I've opened up my throat for him I take his hand then put it on my head and encourage him to pump (I hate being force fed) and I try to stay on it as long as I can before I come up for air.

When it comes to shoot, I go back to his head then massage his balls and look up at him encouraging him. After he shoots I wait until he's done then swallow and then go back for more as he slowly softens or remains hard (then I try for another load).

I don't like sending guys off with a mess, so sometimes I'll get a hot washrag and clean his cock or just finish him off until I see he's stopped leaking (you don't want his wife to get suspicious).

He's satisfied and so am I.