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A curiosity question for the ladies. I've known a few women who were very accomplished at fellatio. Do you really enjoy giving your partner head or is it something you think he likely expects? I love giving a woman pleasure orally but I know a lot of men who either don't do it or don't really like it. Just wondered if it's the same for the ladies.
 
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I very much enjoy giving oral. I very much enjoy touching and playing with my partner (or in the past, partners) parts, sexually or non-sexually. If I'm snuggled up with someone at home, more than likely some part of me is going to be touching on dick, ass, titty, or something of the sort as is appropriate for whatever their body has.

My partner didn't like receiving oral in the past. It took a few months of gentle teasing/persuading to convince him to let me suck his cock at least once. He enjoys receiving oral from me but still prefers PiV. He doesn't orgasm from oral, never has and probably never will. That's okay, it's fun with or without orgasm.
 

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I very much enjoy giving oral. I very much enjoy touching and playing with my partner (or in the past, partners) parts, sexually or non-sexually. If I'm snuggled up with someone at home, more than likely some part of me is going to be touching on dick, ass, titty, or something of the sort as is appropriate for whatever their body has.

My partner didn't like receiving oral in the past. It took a few months of gentle teasing/persuading to convince him to let me suck his cock at least once. He enjoys receiving oral from me but still prefers PiV. He doesn't orgasm from oral, never has and probably never will. That's okay, it's fun with or without orgasm.
Nice answer. Thanks.
 

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I don't do anything I don't enjoy doing. I have an oral fixation of doom.

Now, men folk not eating pussy... you can put those bastards on a island with active volcanoes.

Eat my pussy like ya life depends on it, or get the fuck out. I don't trust men who don't give head. They are immature and self centered. Not traits I am attracted to.
 

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If I didn't enjoy it I wouldn't do it. He didn't like getting sucked until he decided to let me do it. Now he requests it regularly. I'm enthusiastic about it, and I consider it a good work out for my throat/neck area. Keeps the jaw line in shape.

My guy doesn't enjoy eating pussy anymore so I don't insist he do it. I'm not happy about it, but if the roles were reversed and something changed for me and I stopped enjoying sucking him I'd be pissed off if he tried to insist I do it anyway.

Once in a blue moon he'll lick me. Good 'nuff for me.
 

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I love giving oral pleasures. In particular with my last serious person (A LOT), but there were plenty others i very much enjoyed sharing that experience with as well. It's a thrill learning to listen to your partner and being adaptable. And all the other tactile aspects as well as the mental exchange.

However I'm currently going through a majorly solosexual phase, and I don't see myself going back to human contact. I'm cool with that and enjoy how it is. I'll just fantasize about giving oral sex to get off when I feel like it.
 

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A curiosity question for the ladies. I've known a few women who were very accomplished at fellatio. Do you really enjoy giving your partner head or is it something you think he likely expects? I love giving a woman pleasure orally but I know a lot of men who either don't do it or don't really like it. Just wondered if it's the same for the ladies.

Well, the ladies are humans, soooooo.....

Personally, it depends on my partner. I have been with guys who either don’t enjoy, or act that way. It’s no fun then.

My guy absolutely adores it. And I adore giving it. We have a long running joke about how it’s a pity I hate it and a pity he hates it.
I’ll give as long as he wants. Until the TMJ says wtf.
I had the unique pleasure of being the first woman who would deep throat him. He was a day shy of 65. We photo documented it. Giggling the entire time.

But, the moment it’s expected and demanded, and not in a BDSM way, I nope out.
 

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I've lettered in head. I like doing it because he likes it so much. Sometimes it's the first and the last course. I know when and where works best. FYI, in the shower on my knees is his favorite.

He has an advanced degree himself and would teach the course except his sole recipient is a bit reluctant to reproduce the environment in a classroom.

I can't answer if he likes it because I like it, but sometimes I'm wondering who enjoys it more.
 

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It's the attitude that some how eating pussy makes you less of a man by going down on a woman. thaAny implications that a coochie is gross/unclean. It really comes down to believing giving oral is some how degrading. All the while expecting to receive oral sex for themselves. It's a misogynistic fucking asshole mindset.

Fuck that noise.

If there is trauma or an honest disinterest, that's cool. People like and don't like different things. Secret of happiness is being with people who like things you like.
 

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I don't do anything I don't enjoy doing. I have an oral fixation of doom.

Now, men folk not eating pussy... you can put those bastards on a island with active volcanoes.

Eat my pussy like ya life depends on it, or get the fuck out. I don't trust men who don't give head. They are immature and self centered. Not traits I am attracted to.
This. Eat it like you missed it before you even knew it, chase down my orgasms like they owe you something, or just stop and go home. Do it, and do it enthusiastically, or we are done here.

I slob the knob. LOL I remember the first time anyone ever asked me if I suck dick, and that was how she worded it. I make out with erections. It's French kissing taken to an extreme. I milk peens with my throat. I polish them to a high gloss. I smooch on and snuggle up some balls, and then empty them of their entire contents. I will swallow every drop unless I am stopped. I'm on a mission. My hunger becomes the center of the universe. I elevate cocksucking to high art.

Yeah. I wouldn't put that much into it unless I liked it.
 

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I'm piggybacking a question.
In the shower, I always inhale water. No bueno.
What's the secret?
I mean laughter and sex is the bomb, but so is oxygen.

We don't do anything sex in the shower.

It basically always leads to me having a yeast infection, and we can't just do oral without ending up having PiV sex.

So we just wash up and maybe tickle a little in the shower.
 

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Shower sex can be dangerous. Trust me. Only two positions are allowed: fellatio and standing doggy. It's always best if no soap is involved. That's where the danger lies. Also, it's not good for the lily pad.

As for breathing, well, that's a learned trait. I've never had problems, really.