to all who read the start of this thread: i would recommend against sending a Pvt message.. I have sent several to him over the past year.. and he has never replied to them, not even to say that he didn't want to cam with me - we each have our own cam preferences..(age, orientation, etc.) but he has not once replied to a PM that I sent.. so, I would advise saving yourself the time that it takes to compose a pvt message, when the recipient doesnt even have the courtesy to reply...
