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Glory Holes, what's your opinion?


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I suspect stickin your dick in a hole for god knows who to chew would be the simplest way to catch aids or in extreme circumstances some crazy fekker to bite it off. Theres actually a scam goin round now in gay spots in germany, stick your dick in the hole , someone grabs it, and his partner fekkin robs you.
 

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Let me cast a vote in favour of glory holes. Sometimes, gay men, especially those in the middle of a difficult coming out, don't feel secure enough in themselves for intimacy with another man yet.

When I was coming out, I was pretty fucked up. A glory hole (in a legal, clean sex-on-premises establishment) was a pretty good way to experiment. It was gay sex that didn't challenge my identity until I was ready. Of course, I grew out of them.

Besides, the guy on the other side is always a LOT better looking in your imagination...
 

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Lex said:
Not wrong at all. Who needs to glory hole we we can just get naked and fuck?!?

Heh heh heh... then you've probably never fucked thru a glory hole. It's hotter when you know the person on the other side, of course. But it's still plenty hot when you don't.
 
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I've heard about guys getting hurt in these places, so maybe you should watch it.

There's a glory hole across from where I used to work in DC that the gay guys called "Black Forest", and there were muggings there. I think there was a gay-bashing too. Maybe the indoor glory holes are safer, like they have in a gay bar -and yes, I've been to a gay bar.:smile:

Is glory hole and tea room the same thing? I hear gay men talking about sex in the tea room also.
 

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vindicari said:
I suspect stickin your dick in a hole for god knows who to chew would be the simplest way to catch aids

Oops! Sharing used drug or steroid needles, or anal sex without a condom, are much easier ways to get HIV (the virus that leads to AIDS).

Although getting semen from an HIV-positive person in your mouth would certainly be considered a potential risk, it could never be called a "simple way." Call 1-800-342-AIDS for more information.

Iit doesn't matter whether you know the person or not, and whether there is a wall in between you that they stick their penis through or not. All that matters is whether or not one person is infected, and whether or not the two use protection.

When talking about important issues that have a scientific basis, like HIV transmission, it's important not to let your moral judgments get in the way of the truth.
 

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Matthew said:
Oops! Sharing used drug or steroid needles, or anal sex without a condom, are much easier ways to get HIV (the virus that leads to AIDS).

Although getting semen from an HIV-positive person in your mouth would certainly be considered a potential risk, it could never be called a "simple way." Call 1-800-342-AIDS for more information.

Iit doesn't matter whether you know the person or not, and whether there is a wall in between you that they stick their penis through or not. All that matters is whether or not one person is infected, and whether or not the two use protection.

When talking about important issues that have a scientific basis, like HIV transmission, it's important not to let your moral judgments get in the way of the truth.


Well said Matthew
 

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ok mr moderator, but moderate with moderation, my statement may have been simplistic not scientific but this a forum, if i,ve caused offence i apologise. my main premiss is you dont know who,s on the other side of the wall. jeffrey dahmer?. forgive me i love sex as much as anyone but i,d rather keep an eye on my willy and whats happenin to it. maybe it,s just me but sex is as much visual as tactile. otherwise why would we have bondage freaks, rubber freaks, leather freaks, foot fetishes etc
 

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Those options certainly don't exhaust the field or exclude each other. Someone might think they're vile and gross and still use them, and/or appreciate them and think there were enough.

They're designed to avoid intimacy. They're also designed to hide all aspects of the person but one, so that the imagination can have full reign. I'm sure many guys who are bodily (and personally) unattractive find sex there who would never find it anywhere else.

As for the risks, are there any verified accounts of anyone coming to bodily harm (not counting disease) at one?

And if any strait guys are sneering at those disgusting queers, imagine the traffic if there were glory holes with women on the other side!
 

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I have done nearly everything - but not this.

As an earlier member said - let the freak flag fly. It doesn't appeal to me but it is comforting to know such things happen
 

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Visited a few glory holes pre aids years. And yes, had a women on the other side more than a couple of times. In those days it was for quick intimateless oral sex for most although you knew there were a few who had anal sex there. Was asked to go home with the guy on the other side that gave the blow job a few times but never did. Like I said it was for intimateless sexual release. Never knew of anyone getting hurt, but think today is a different day and people are alot different than in the olden days. Wouldn't go to one now for anything in the world. Just about every sexual disease is running rampant now. Better safe than sorry.
 

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dkmilker said:
I should point out that, although I have sucked, give or take, 3 dozen cocks through a gloryhole, I have never sucked a cock that I thought was attatched to a skank or drug addict.

I'm not sure how you would know if they were a skank or a drug addict unless you were psychic. When I was a kid and I'd see holes in bathroom stalls, I thought they were for perverts to watch guys going to the bathroom. Only when I got older did I find out that they were used for anonymous sex and contributed to countless cases of AIDS and STD's in the gay community. Glory holes are a sad reminder of what was once the gay norm, and how gays must never go back to that steotypical behavior any more.
 

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ManiacalMadMan said:
So let the gloryholes exist and maybe even make them legal because then at least there could be health codes set up to make them more sanitary

lmao. That must be some kind of joke. Gays deserve better than that filth.
 

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I voted Option B.......I couldnt just stick my dick through a hole like that, never know what's on the other side. How about if there's a dick chopping psycho on the other side that will chop your cock off...ouch, no thanks
 

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I've gotten my cock sucked at many a glory hole/arcade. I love blowjobs, and guys who are horny enough to be sucking cock at a gloryhole give GREAT head. I have only sucked a guy in an arcade once, and it was because he had a huge cock, bigger than mine, he might have been 9", plus he was noticeably thicker than I am, which is betweent 5.8"/6.0" around.
 

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I put my preferences at 80% straight, 20% gay because, while i've only dated and fallen in love with women, i do appreciate big cocks.

and the way i've apreciated them is by sucking them off at gloryholes at adult bookstores in new york city. i actually did this for years. i've compared my cock with tons of dudes and seen tons of cocks through them. for a time, i found them very exciting. i've seen and sucked off some BIG cocks through glory holes. i've also seen how many cocks are kind of small and lame - it's given me perspective on my own cock; i know i'm bigger than most.

i would love the thrill of knowing guys were watching me get hard and knowing they wanted to suck my cock. it was flattering. i loved watching other guys and checking out their cocks. if the cock was big enough i'd motion the person to stick their cock through the hole. i loved rubbing my hard cock with another one and have a swordfight (my favorite male/male sexual activity). if the cock was especially big, smooth and beautiful and if it looked completely clean, i would get on knees and suck a little bit. i never let anyone finish in my mouth because i as afraid for my health. i just enjoyed the completely forbidden thrill of have a big cock in my mouth.

i didn't really let men suck my cock very much. it wasn't a turn on. my philosophy was always that annonymous sex was so risky that i wouldn't bother doing anything that wasn't super exciting for me. i wouldn't even bother touching small cocks, for example. i always much prefered blow jobs from my girlfriend anyway. the idea of a dude sucking me off never did anything for me.

but then one day i got a skin virus (though not herpes or hpv), probably from rubbing my hard dick with another one without a condom, and i'm done for good! i would never consider any type of sexual activity with a man annonymously -- even with a condom, i can't stand the risk anymore. i've never dated a man or had feelings for one, so my days of experimenting with men sexually may very well be over.

i recently took an std test and am proud to say i'm completely clean. the gloryholes were wild, and i'm lucky not to have gotten anything permanent. but i won't put myself at risk anymore.
 

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Well, here in the UK, we are rapidly loosing our G.Holes, but I find them the most exiting things for a bit of quick fun..and OH!...some of the huge succelent cocks Iv'e had through them !