today, me and a group of friends went out to eat. the waitress was super cute........and instantly i felt she was attracted to me by her eye contact.....and that theory was backed up(i guess?)as as i was the go to guy for everyone......ready for drinks, ready to order? etc etc questions were asked to me with eye contact towards me. so i started to flirt, and she responded by flirting back. so, at the very end, once she left the check, i poped the question. if there was anyway i could get her number. she smiled, paused and hesitated......stuttered over a few words.....and told me, "you had to put me on the spot uh?".....paused again, and then in a low voice said, no, im sorry.......and i smiled and told her thats cool...as to not make her feel akward.......then her voice changed and got louder, and said........"well maybe.....how about this, im working all next weekend, stop by and then yes, you can have it". on the way out, we locked eyes again and i said ok see ya christina....and she responded by ok see ya soon with a big smile. i am posting this because.......im still learning with women and sometimes i fail and get walked on because i am easy manipulated. so right now i am confused and concerned, that if i do go back, she will think im a sucker and already have an image that im a chump. i am confused, that if she was interested, why wouldnt she just give me her number. yes, i did ask her in front of my friends........i did this to show her i had balls and wasnt scared, and also i did this because there was also 2 girls with me........and i wanted to show her that these girls were just friends, and i wasnt hiding anything if i went up to her 1on1. so maybe i did put her on the spot, and she wanted to but didnt want to come off as a slut?? WOMEN???? so, should i go back? and should i go myself, or bring a friend? im ok going myself........but again going back to my image problem, i dont want to seem like a desperate prick going myself.....then having her think im easy to control.