God I must be so gullible

Discussion in 'Et Cetera, Et Cetera' started by SassySpy, May 31, 2007.

  1. SassySpy

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    even after all this time here, I manage to be fooled by someone who obviously wasn't who he said he was - as he was banned within about an hour of joining, :confused: I think I'll stick with my usual procedure of waiting awhile before answering someone.:eek:
     
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    What the hell are you talking about?
     
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    Many of us have been fooled at one time or another. Especially on this site! Fakers are unhappy, profoundly insecure people and not worth losing any sleep over. For what it's worth I say let it go and move on :smile:
     
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    I don't know who you are talking about; but as one who has been taken in more than once by sweet talking slime I sympathize. :redface: :frown1:
     
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    Don't be so hard on yourself! I agree with monstro's advice. Don't worry about this and move on. I have been fooled before and probably will be again. I don't let it bother me, but I learn from these experiences.
     
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    Just some guy was PM'ing me a couple hours ago, I dont generally respond to new people but he seemed ok- no big deal, nothing happened but within an hour or so of his hello in the new member section he'd been banned :eek:
    anyway I was just talking out loud really, when I started the thread. and doing this : :banghead:
    :lmao:
     
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    It's all good... we just care about you that's all!!!!!
     
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    Short of you being psychic, I really can't see how you ought to blame yourself for trying to be a kind, accepting person. The shame lies with him. Is he really worth beating yourself over? I think not! We are always bound to bump into sick puppies every now and again, my way of dealing with them, is to create greeting card in my mind. On the cover is a picture of a voodoo doll covered in pins, the caption on the inside reads "thinking of you".... Guess who now looks like a sick puppy? Hehehehe :smile:
     
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    everyone says Im to nice and trusting of people, and I have been burned a million times.. but I will never let that part of me die.. :)
     
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    Sassy, there's no way any of us can tell right off the bat what another person will be like. The person you were speaking with may not have been out to fool you. They may have been banned for a number of reasons not related to deception. Please don't be put off by this.

    I'm sorry that you had an experience that left you doubting yourself. The only thing I can say to you is shrug it off and smile when you meet the next person. Your kind nature is one of the things we treasure about you here, please don't let that be sullied.


    DJG, good attitude!
     
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    :( Awh. Don't let one dumbass ruin it for the rest of us! This site has tons of cool people with really big dicks (haha) and there are plenty of genuine people on here to talk to. I can name several off the top of my head if you ask me. You have GREAT pics and you seem down to earth.. maybe we could talk sometime if your view on us LPSG straight men isn't destroyed?
     
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    No worries, lovey. You know the cliche, 'one bad apple doesnt spoil the whole bunch' lol
    and there ARE great people here, thats why I never leave- and the trolls and dumbass jerks won't destroy anything except themselves and their self respect, if they had any to begin with.:tongue:
    oh and thank you for the compliment:redface:
     
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    At least it didn't cost you any money. He must not have been from Nigeria.
     
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    Actually, the cliche goes the other way around. A bad apple in the barrel will make the ones it touches go bad, then they'll do the same with the ones they touch, and soon the whole barrel is 'way past its "sell by" date. The whole barrel can be ruined by one bad apple.

    I hope that cheers everybody up.
     
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    Does that mean ... the Osmonds lied to us? :sorry:
     
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    Gotta love that ethylene, right?

    In oh, so many ways... but we won't go into the details just now...
     
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    Atta girl :wink: Thats exactly what keeps you above people like that.

    oh and don't mention it. Its only the truth. :biggrin1:
     
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