Goes soft quickly

[chubby98]

So getting it hard isn't to much of a problem but keeping it hard seems..well difficult. Often times during intercourse with my wife it just randomly gets soft and falls out. It is a constant mood killer and not sure what to do.

 

[lovesbbw1981]

So getting it hard isn't to much of a problem but keeping it hard seems..well difficult. Often times during intercourse with my wife it just randomly gets soft and falls out. It is a constant mood killer and not sure what to do.

I know that if you're worried about it happening, it's going to keep happening. Stress kills boners. I used to have a similar problem. I'd keep worrying I wasn't as hard as I wanted to be. Do you and your wife talk about it? If not, then you need to tell her your concerns. I hope she's willing to listen and help you. If not you've got a rough road on your hands I think. What helped me was communicating with my wife, and we figured out I was getting a little bored in the bedroom. It wasn't her fault, I hadn't really communicated it to her very well. I didn't even know that's what was happening until we talked about it. Once we did though, we were able to try other things and problem solved. Even TALKING about other things in a positive way helped.

 

[long_uncut]

Happens more frequently with age. As they always say, "Talk with your doctor." Sounds like signs of E.D.