no worries, wingnut84, i just didn't want to offend anyone.
when i dated an openly bi guy in the past, i had a friend tell me, "i can't believe you're going out with him. if i date a straight man, i only have to worry about him leaving me for 50% of the population [
meaning women]. if i dated someone who was bisexual, i've got 100% of the population to worry about!" i agreed with her ... to a point. but i had to quickly point out that although we're sexually driven as humans, we have a
choice whether to cheat or not.
i also had to remind her that cheating is oftentimes NOT sexually-based, especially for women (again,
not making a blanket statement here that only men cheat for physiological reasons!).
and i've gone out behind a boyfriend's back with another woman before, so i definitely don't have room to talk! i went out with her for emotional reasons. yeah, that's it!