Going commando to church

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Originally posted by Dr Rock+Jul 12 2005, 06:13 PM--><div class='quotetop'>QUOTE(Dr Rock &#064; Jul 12 2005, 06:13 PM)</div><div class='quotemain'><!--QuoteBegin-prepstudinsc@Jul 12 2005, 08:14 PM
God is holy and demands just a little bit more respect than shorts and a tank top with flip flops as I&#39;ve seen in many non-Protestant churches.
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what&#39;s respect got to do with what you wear? if god is supposed to be omnipresent, he sees you picking your nose, farting in your sleep, and skipping around the house in your daughter&#39;s underwear anyway. I&#39;d think that wearing formal clothes to church would just prompt a :eyes: on his part.
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You kiss the don&#39;s hand and call him Godfather or you face the consequences.

As far as God is concerned, you kneel when you pray, use the words thee, thou, thine, etc., dress appropriately for the purpose and love your neighbor as yourself. Sure, he see&#39;s all the warts and boogers, but he also demands the respect he is due.
 

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I play the organ at my church. We all are very informal although we are a mainstream, traditional protestant church.

I am afraid that if I went commando I would be tempted to play WITH my organ instead of play the organ. Not a good thing at church.
 

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Originally posted by DoubleMeatWhopper+Jul 12 2005, 01:13 PM--><div class='quotetop'>QUOTE(DoubleMeatWhopper &#064; Jul 12 2005, 01:13 PM)</div><div class='quotemain'><!--QuoteBegin-prepstudinsc@Jul 12 2005, 03:14 PM
I guess we Protestants just hold to tradition a lot more than some churches do.
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Ummm ... excuse me? The Catholic Church has the Latin Vulgate as its official translation of the Bible, completed twelve centuries before the King James Version was begun. The liturgy of the Catholic Curch is the Mass which dates back to the time of St. Gregory the Great, the Pope who reigned more than twelve and a half centuries before Martin Luther was born. The Latin Church can trace its Pontificate and Episcopate back to the apostles. In light of the traditions held by the Catholic Church, how does one&#39;s choice of clothing qualify as "holding to tradition a lot more"?
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And the Protestants split apart. Over minutiae a lot of times. I can tell Coke from Pepsi, but I can&#39;t tell two different Protestant flavors apart.
 

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Originally posted by Pecker@Jul 12 2005, 10:45 PM
You kiss the don&#39;s hand and call him Godfather or you face the consequences.

As far as God is concerned, you kneel when you pray, use the words thee, thou, thine, etc., dress appropriately for the purpose and love your neighbor as yourself. Sure, he see&#39;s all the warts and boogers, but he also demands the respect he is due.
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wow. that&#39;s a pretty big insecurity problem he&#39;s got, considering he&#39;s supposed to be the master of the universe and all.
 

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Why is it that no topic even remotely related to religion can be mentioned in this forum without Dr. Rock and Ashlar feeling compelled to attack the entire concept of Christianity with biggotry and hatred that would be roundly condemned if directed at any other group in society? Most of us have the common decency to respect the views of others, even when we disagree, but not these two&#33; Oh, I forgot&#33; I guess they hate the Golden Rule because it was Jesus who said it.
 

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Originally posted by Pecker@Jul 12 2005, 05:45 PM
You kiss the don&#39;s hand and call him Godfather or you face the consequences.

As far as God is concerned, you kneel when you pray, use the words thee, thou, thine, etc., dress appropriately for the purpose and love your neighbor as yourself. Sure, he see&#39;s all the warts and boogers, but he also demands the respect he is due.

We kneel during the canon of the Mass, but we view God as a loving Father, not a mafioso don who reigns through fear. We do God&#39;s will because we want to please Him, not because we&#39;re afraid we&#39;ll awake with a horse&#39;s head in our bed otherwise. I can give respect and glory to God regardless of my apparel.

BTW, we only use the archaic forms Thou, Thee, Thy, Thine in set prayers and hymns. In free-style prayer, we normally use You, Your. But as a point of interest, Thou, Thee, etc., are terms of familiarity, not terms of respect. In the 16th century, if you referred to royalty or nobility as thou instead of you, you would be promptly escorted to a dungeon without trial. Thou was reserved for family members, intimate friends, animals, and those clearly beneath one in station; to use it for someone who didn&#39;t fit within one of those categories was considered a grave insult. The familiar term was used for God because of the view of God as Daddy, a term of intimacy.
 

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I don’t have much to add to the original topic. I rarely go commando to begin with and when attending church like to dress up a little. It has nothing to do with being pretentious; I just like to get into dress pants the same as I would if visiting my grandparents. I had worked in a mine for a few years and I’ll take almost any chance to not look like a dirtball. (Heck, I used to go to fancy restaurants straight from work in a pair of carharts and a dirty (white?) Haines T-shirt.) I do not think that going commando is a problem. If you are doing it for the attention and gyrating your hips to get it swinging while pointing to it so as the other parishioners notice while humming tunes you would hear at the strippers you may want to reconsider your actions. If, on the other hand, you have banished the underwear for comfort reasons and you are a little discrete I cannot see a problem.

I have to admit that I am always interested to see how many of this forums “regular” members attend a church. I guess when I ran across it I had never really given the idea that it would be a community with such a large percentage of people professing their faith any thought.
 

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Originally posted by mavedick@Jul 13 2005, 03:14 AM
Why is it that no topic even remotely related to religion can be mentioned in this forum without Dr. Rock and Ashlar feeling compelled to attack the entire concept of Christianity with biggotry and hatred that would be roundly condemned if directed at any other group in society?
where&#39;s the "biggotry (sic) and hatred" in my posts? I have a well-developed sense of irony and thus I find the "concept of christianity" rather amusing. if you can&#39;t deal with someone laughing at your religion, maybe you need to reassess your convictions some.

Most of us have the common decency to respect the views of others, even when we disagree, but not these two&#33;
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:shrug: my respect ain&#39;t given; it&#39;s earned. christianity fails THAT examination big time.
 

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My better judgment tells me God doesn&#39;t have issues. We do. Most particularly ultra religious types who are intelligent enough to comprehend the infinite mind of God. (uh huh, fer shure, they are like EVERY WHERE from what I&#39;ve seen.) I run the other way or scare the hell out of them. Sensible people are much better to go to church with. People who know they sin, and are still trying anyway.

We usually do shirt and tie. Many do suits. Women in dresses. I like it that way because I do shirt and tie, but mix it up a lot with looks, textures, stuff like that. I&#39;m used to it. However, when I&#39;ve visited evangelical churches, gone to mass, etc., I&#39;ve always liked the differences.

I haven&#39;t freeballed at church. Not that I wouldn&#39;t, just that I am SO paranoid that I might drip after going to the men&#39;s room I don&#39;t want to take the chance. I&#39;ve seen that enough from others, and I wouldn&#39;t say that was a turn on, big basket or not.

That&#39;s my take.
 

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Originally posted by jonb@Jul 12 2005, 07:33 PM
And the Protestants split apart. Over minutiae a lot of times. I can tell Coke from Pepsi, but I can&#39;t tell two different Protestant flavors apart.
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If you&#39;re Protestant, it&#39;s usually pretty easy to tell the difference between denominations just because of orders of service, words used in the Lord&#39;s Prayer (Presbyterians wil ALWAYS say "debts"), Baptists always have a baptisty, Disciples of Christ have communion each week, churches of Christ use no musical instruments in worship, Methodists often have altar rails, etc. It&#39;s these things to look for.
 

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Originally posted by DoubleMeatWhopper+Jul 12 2005, 05:13 PM--><div class='quotetop'>QUOTE(DoubleMeatWhopper &#064; Jul 12 2005, 05:13 PM)</div><div class='quotemain'><!--QuoteBegin-prepstudinsc@Jul 12 2005, 03:14 PM
I guess we Protestants just hold to tradition a lot more than some churches do.
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Ummm ... excuse me? The Catholic Church has the Latin Vulgate as its official translation of the Bible, completed twelve centuries before the King James Version was begun. The liturgy of the Catholic Curch is the Mass which dates back to the time of St. Gregory the Great, the Pope who reigned more than twelve and a half centuries before Martin Luther was born. The Latin Church can trace its Pontificate and Episcopate back to the apostles. In light of the traditions held by the Catholic Church, how does one&#39;s choice of clothing qualify as "holding to tradition a lot more"?
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I&#39;m not going to get into a debate about the pope and bishops, because that is a topic on which we will never agree. I personally think that it&#39;s wrong to have centralized power, that churches should be autonomous, but that&#39;s my anabaptist mind at work.

What I meant by tradition was that people go to church for an hour or more on Sunday morning, cleaned up, dressed up, behaved, ready to worship and learn.
This just seems to be something that Protestants still hold on to. They do it because they want to, Catholics for the most part are there because they have to be. I have many Catholic family members--when I go to visit them I am shocked to see how people go to church--dressed in shorts and sandals, they come in late, leave after communion, they don&#39;t sing, don&#39;t participate in mass, they just sit there like bumps on a log. By the time mass is really over, 1/2 the church has left.
When I have filled in playing the organ for Saturday evening mass (which is the MOST casual of all the weekend masses) people seem to all leave after communion--and they don&#39;t participate in the mass at all. They are there because they have to be, they&#39;ve got better things to be doing, but because it&#39;s a sin to miss mass, they&#39;re going to be there. Well to my Protestant mind, it&#39;s more of a sin to be there and not want to be there. It&#39;s a totally different experience in most Protestant churches where the congregation participates and wants to be there. At my church, there is an air of excitement before the service starts--to have 1100+ members in the congregation sing together (at each service) is thrilling. People are dressed up, people sit and take notes during the sermon. The bulletin actually has a page in it specifically for sermon notes, not a page on the back with ads. So that&#39;s what I meant by "tradition".
 

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Originally posted by prepstudinsc@Jul 15 2005, 01:37 PM
I&#39;m not going to get into a debate about the pope and bishops, because that is a topic on which we will never agree. I personally think that it&#39;s wrong to have centralized power, that churches should be autonomous, but that&#39;s my anabaptist mind at work.

You are entitled to your opinion, of course ... despite the fact that the lack of recognition of a central authority and the desire for autonomy were the leading causes of the proliferation of widespread heresy in the early Church.

What I meant by tradition was that people go to church for an hour or more on Sunday morning, cleaned up, dressed up, behaved, ready to worship and learn.

Putting forth a pretty picture for about an hour a week: yeah, there&#39;s a sure sign of devotion.

This just seems to be something that Protestants still hold on to. They do it because they want to, Catholics for the most part are there because they have to be.

Have to be? Nope. Missing Sunday Mass no longer incurs the penalty of grievous sin. The Church still encourages regular attendance of Mass on Sundays and holy days of obligation, and in fact considers it a duty, but it is not required by canon law. The Church recognises that attendance at Mass without the desire to be there is an empty act that bears no grace.

I have many Catholic family members--when I go to visit them I am shocked to see how people go to church

I am sorry that you have attended Mass in a Church that has given you a negative impression. That&#39;s not the situation of the cathedral where I attend Mass.

they come in late,

The only ones who come in late where I attend are little old ladies who are running behind. Even then, they always arrive before the beginning of the first reading.

leave after communion,

Rare. There are a few who do so here, but very few.


they don&#39;t sing,

There is a love of music in my congregation. Whether traditional hymns or folk guitar music, there is much singing.

don&#39;t participate in mass, they just sit there like bumps on a log.

Oh, we participate, alright. As a matter of fact, it&#39;s not at all unusual to see people still offering the sign of peace halfway through the Agnus Dei. You can hear hundreds of voices praying together at any Sunday Mass.

By the time mass is really over, 1/2 the church has left.

I can&#39;t say what happens in every Catholic Church, but our parish hall is full to bursting after Mass, people visiting over coffee and doughnuts.

They are there because they have to be, they&#39;ve got better things to be doing, but because it&#39;s a sin to miss mass, they&#39;re going to be there.

Again, that&#39;s a common misconception.

People are people regardless of denomination. Some are going to be there because they want to be, others are going to be there out of a sense of obligation, some are going to be there because Mom makes them go, and sadly, some are going to go to church to be seen going to church. We Catholics see the Mass as a celebration of the Eucharist and an affirmation that we are members of the Mystical Body, and we are that regardless of what we&#39;re wearing. God can see beyond the clothes to divine what&#39;s in our hearts. I&#39;m at Mass to experience fellowhip with my religious brothers and sisters, not to impress them with how good I can look when dressing up.
 

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i have to say I do enjoy your espousals at this site. I am sorry to say I am a lowly Prsbyterian as compared to you being Catholic. but none theless your thoughts are very good reading it shows your advanced degrees are having an effect.

God bless and keep up the good work

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Originally posted by oldbodybuilder2004@Jul 15 2005, 07:20 PM

i have to say I do enjoy your espousals at this site. I am sorry to say I am a lowly Prsbyterian as compared to you being Catholic.
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Lowly Presbyterian? What is lowly about being a Presbyterian? Calvin and Knox were far from being lowly. They were quite learned men and Calvin&#39;s father was a well respected attorney, and while not wealthy, was of solid upper middle class background. Just because you are Protestant is nothing to be ashamed of--embrace your Presbyterian heritage. It is something to be proud of. Calvin reformed a church that was full of heresy and fought for a faith that he believed in. He went up against the established church to fight for truth, I would hardly call that lowly--be proud that you&#39;re Presbyterian.
 

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Originally posted by Pappy@Jul 14 2005, 01:53 AM
Well IMHO, I don&#39;t think GOD gives a rats ass one way or the other if you go commando or not to church, just as long as you go.
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Is there even really a rule in the bible that you must attend church or is that something the Catholics came up with?
 

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It&#39;s something the Catholics came up with. I think it was a "venial" sin if you didn&#39;t go to mass each week. There is nothing in the Bible about going to church each week. The principle of meeting together with fellow believers however is a principle espoused in the Bible, the frequency is not mentioned.
 

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Originally posted by DoubleMeatWhopper@Jul 15 2005, 02:48 PM
Putting forth a pretty picture for about an hour a week: yeah, there&#39;s a sure sign of devotion.
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And there you came up with the exact image I get from fundies.