My erection will most likely fade away given enough time (time varies). Welcome to life. If the goal was to keep it I would obviously stroke it in order to maintain. The goal however is not that, really I could give less of a fuck. The goal is to give her a good time. I prefer to make use of both of my hands in order make things even better. Realistically oral takes as long as oral takes. There is no set time. It could take as little as 3 minutes or over an hour. Like I said, the erection will fade eventually. It takes little to no work to get it back. If she can't put in that work for a few seconds or even wait, then she isn't really worth the time. Same could be said, more so honestly if she attempted to give me a hard time over it. Ignorance and immaturity make for a great recipe to get booted. I fuck women not grown children.
I think it is important to have an understanding of basic anatomy and come in with realistic expectations. If you expect the guy to be rock hard 100% of the time... well more than likely reality is going to waltz by one day and shatter that unrealistic fantasy of yours. Also keep in mind that just because he does not have an erection does not necessarily mean he is not aroused, he may be very aroused but simply have a higher stimulation threshold. Maybe he is nervous, maybe he is having an off day for god knows what, perhaps he just has erection issues. There are a variety of reasons. Your ability to stay hard isn't really something to be ashamed nor proud of, more than likely you didn't do anything to gain that ability and it is what was dealt by genetics and the aid of youth. Realize that not everyone is the same. Also realize time, stress, medicine, health, etc can change things.
Its no different than women who need almost zero prep time to take even large insertions vs others that need a good amount of warm up time. Or how some women get sore more quickly than others or perhaps tire out after x amount of time and or orgasms. Variation.
That's my take on it.
I think it is important to have an understanding of basic anatomy and come in with realistic expectations. If you expect the guy to be rock hard 100% of the time... well more than likely reality is going to waltz by one day and shatter that unrealistic fantasy of yours. Also keep in mind that just because he does not have an erection does not necessarily mean he is not aroused, he may be very aroused but simply have a higher stimulation threshold. Maybe he is nervous, maybe he is having an off day for god knows what, perhaps he just has erection issues. There are a variety of reasons. Your ability to stay hard isn't really something to be ashamed nor proud of, more than likely you didn't do anything to gain that ability and it is what was dealt by genetics and the aid of youth. Realize that not everyone is the same. Also realize time, stress, medicine, health, etc can change things.
Its no different than women who need almost zero prep time to take even large insertions vs others that need a good amount of warm up time. Or how some women get sore more quickly than others or perhaps tire out after x amount of time and or orgasms. Variation.
That's my take on it.
