So, the answer to my question; i basically need a long day in bed with her, if you insist!!
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Wow - ironic that you'd be named 'Serial Kisser' yet wouldn't like getting kissed everywhere.
This is always a funny topic to read about - whenever the subject comes up, I like hearing about all the men and women who swear "finger her!" and right after "don't stick your fingers up there it's awful!"
Morning,
I've been seeing a girl for about 3weeks now and i feel i'm not satisfying when i go down for supper... she makes all the right noises, so i can't be going far wrong, but i feel it's just lacking something..... I'm quite content with all other aspects of the bedroom workout... and need advice from you experienced guys to better myself....
At the moment i try teasing her.. kissing down her body, around her inner thighs, before moving closer in and licking around/playing with her labia minora, then moving slowly up (with long licks) to her clit, then start getting fingers and tongue involved together etc etc........
Cheers Guys
Why are you asking other guys who do not have said equipment ? Ask your girl! Ask her what she likes - ask her to direct you - these guys don't have the answers. She does.
Five minutes...I normally figure I will be there 25 to 301. don't go down there unless you plan to stay as long as it takes (and for some that can be a while). Don't get frustrated if they don't come in the first five minutes and forget about doing a rush job.
Wrong...I have gotten so many women off using only my fingersLeave the fingers out
This isn't true for all women. I love fingers up there, though not the whole time and definitely not at first.
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This is always a funny topic to read about - whenever the subject comes up, I like hearing about all the men and women who swear "finger her!" and right after "don't stick your fingers up there it's awful!"
Surely you're not normal! ALL the girls in porn just LUUUUURVE two fingers rammed right up there, going hammer and tongs, like a demented piston.
And like the women in porn, I love when the whole fist is rammed up there even more...
Having her thighs pressed against my head while she is arching her back and moaning in pleasure is almost enough to make me cum unassisted.
Good sex, especially oral sex, is all about good communication--not necessarily verbal exchanges (although that doesn't hurt). To give good oral, you really need to be totally atuned to your partner. No two women are exactly alike in where their pleasure begins and ends. As you lick, nibble, touch, all of the various places your mouth and fingers wander across, you should get into her so much that you sense every movement, whisper, moan, or scream, which she might make. Don't force anything--unless you pick up on her wanting you to--but rather join in a conversation of pleasure with her body. When you do this, sexual intimacy becomes one with personal intimacy.
Revel in the fact that no two partners are the same between the sheets; if they were, we'd all be happily monogamous for our entire lives with the first person who we slept with. Your girlfriend, and her desires, are in some ways like and other ways unlike the others which you have known before her. Exploring your girlfriend with your all of your body, and learning her so perfectly that her pleasures blend into yours is the ultimate erotic bliss. So don't feel anxious if you don't have some sort of "game plan" as you work your mouth over her warm flesh; relish in the experience of the mystery of your joint pleasuring, and how those discoveries only bond the two of you even closer. And in the best of all possible worlds, you'll never quite finish experiencing those mysteries of learning each other.
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And like the women in porn, I love when the whole fist is rammed up there even more...
Roomy...
I do enjoy going down on her, then kiss her straight after with the taste of her still in your mouth, probably wrong to do so, but does it for me ;-) .
blow on that pussy like you are playing a trumpet...
If she enjoys oral sex and doesn't mind direct clit stimulation, something you might try is rolling your tongue around her clit (if you can) and then gently sucking and releasing it like you would with soda in a straw.
But do ask her first, otherwise the unexpected intensity might get you literally kicked from bed or your head squished in a thigh vise.