Going Down On Women?

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anybody else find this to be a deal breaker for women?

i cant tell you how many women talk about how they cant wait to get together ... and then when they ask me if i'm gonna go down on them and i say no... there's complete radio silence. it's a deal breaker. they ghost.

btw, i dont expect a woman to go down on me. if she does, great. if not, i don't stop talking to her and end things.

I've always said women don't care about size, but what they DO care about is if you eat them out or not.

at least that has been my experience.
 

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Going south , is something that I truly enjoy . Fortunately , the word got around , that I was a true " enthusiast " so to speak , and brought a few women my way . I have stayed down there for hours on end and loved every minute of it . The song " lick & a promise " wasn't written about me . So , no ,I have not had the experience that you allude to .
 

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anybody else find this to be a deal breaker for women?

i cant tell you how many women talk about how they cant wait to get together ... and then when they ask me if i'm gonna go down on them and i say no... there's complete radio silence. it's a deal breaker. they ghost.

btw, i dont expect a woman to go down on me. if she does, great. if not, i don't stop talking to her and end things.

I've always said women don't care about size, but what they DO care about is if you eat them out or not.

at least that has been my experience.
You're not wrong, there is definitely a discrepancy in how either gender is treated when certain sexual acts are off of the table. There's this sense of entitlement women get to exist within when it comes to sex that men do not. I personally have come across women whom for whatever reason(incidental or traumatic) cant give oral or anal sex, or certain positions are off limits, and never was the refusal of such things even considered as a mark against them; just simply a motivation to indulge in other stuff. I guess women on average either feel that there's no sexual act that they prefer that could be triggering to their partner, or they simply dont care and insist they simply get over it. It doesn't help the large population of men who's opportunism reigns supreme, put forth the notion that any and all guys love it and any whom proclaim to not enjoy oral on a woman are somehow selfish or not good potential partners...completely ignoring the large amount of men that for whom sexual trauma, bad experiences, and personal comfortabilities have turned them off to oral.
 
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you are all lucky men. i used to think this way too. Then the Michael Douglas thing happened and HPV related oral cancers started to tick up. Men were having their tongue and jaws removed due to oral cancers and It just scared the hell out of me.

When I stopped many years ago, I found it interesting that after all the comments i would get on my size, NONE of it mattered once i told them I don't dine at the Y... the sheer and utter look of soul crushing disappointment in their eyes. You could see the post coital glow instantaneously vanish from their faces. It was worse than if i told them I thought they looked fat. An instant chill entered the bedroom and they were done. And I would most likely never see them again. Again, if it were one woman, no biggie... but i've had this happen MANY times. Today, a girl ghosted me on text once she asked me and I told her.

This is the LPSG, but maybe it should be the PESG, (pussy eating support group) because sex is clearly only enjoyable to women only if you go down on them, no matter how big you are. Although, maybe you guys can change my mind?
 

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I haven’t had the best experiences going down on women, but I know given more chances I’d probably love it. My issue is that I have a crazy sensitive nose, if anything brushes it lightly, it tickles like crazy and I can’t shake the feeling for many minutes. So unfortunately unless a lady is bare or very close-trimmed, I can’t dive in and eat her out something fierce like I’d love to.

To equalize the playing field though, I make sure I stay close-trimmed down there. If I want others to be that way, then I try to set the example so it doesn’t feel one-sided. Generally most people don’t even reach the base of my crazy length, but still it’s the thought that counts.
 
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Well I have found pure joy in eating pussy and my lady friends love every minute of it (though very selective on who I go down on). I will only go down on women that I have had a chance to get to know a little first to see some of their hygiene habits. Therefore, once the conversations evolve to sex we are both excited that we do things that each other enjoy!:)
 

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you are all lucky men. i used to think this way too. Then the Michael Douglas thing happened and HPV related oral cancers started to tick up. Men were having their tongue and jaws removed due to oral cancers and It just scared the hell out of me.

When I stopped many years ago, I found it interesting that after all the comments i would get on my size, NONE of it mattered once i told them I don't dine at the Y... the sheer and utter look of soul crushing disappointment in their eyes. You could see the post coital glow instantaneously vanish from their faces. It was worse than if i told them I thought they looked fat. An instant chill entered the bedroom and they were done. And I would most likely never see them again. Again, if it were one woman, no biggie... but i've had this happen MANY times. Today, a girl ghosted me on text once she asked me and I told her.

This is the LPSG, but maybe it should be the PESG, (pussy eating support group) because sex is clearly only enjoyable to women only if you go down on them, no matter how big you are. Although, maybe you guys can change my mind?
Well. Women are different than men. They need more than a large cock sometimes to have an orgasm. Men are clearly easier to please. Personally I don’t even like to have a woman go down on me. Yet my wife loves to duck my cock. We are all different. But most women seem to need more than intercourse.
 

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once i told them I don't dine at the Y... the sheer and utter look of soul crushing disappointment in their eyes. You could see the post coital glow instantaneously vanish from their faces. It was worse than if i told them I thought they looked fat. An instant chill entered the bedroom and they were done.

How do you tell them? What you stated above makes me think it's the way you are letting them know. Like it's a vile act or beneath you.

Do women actually ask men if they go down? I've been off the market for over 25 years so I legitimately don't know.
 

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I've never found it to be a deal breaker at all. No woman I've ever been with has asked if I was going to go down on her before hand either. And while I do enjoy it I haven't gone down on every woman I've been with and for those that I have not gone down on it has not changed anything.
 
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Never found it to be a deal breaker. I don’t particularly enjoy going down on ladies and I don’t expect them to blow me either. My girlfriend is not too keen on it either and we are cool with it. If someone finds it a dealbreaker, they aren’t worth it anyway IMHO.
 

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ha. i agree. maybe it's a California thing. ha :)

Never found it to be a deal breaker. I don’t particularly enjoy going down on ladies and I don’t expect them to blow me either. My girlfriend is not too keen on it either and we are cool with it. If someone finds it a dealbreaker, they aren’t worth it anyway IMHO.
 
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I understand it being a deal breaker. If a woman would not go down on me that’s a deal breaker as well.

However I also love going down on women so this never bothers me.

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