Going down - too intimate?

[D_Kay_Sarah_Sarah]

It normally takes me quiet a while to be comfortable enough to let a guy go down on me. SO if he tried to do it first time we jumped into bed i would find it strange and would most probably stop him. I wouldn't tell him straight out i didn't want it, but i would find a way to discreetly change to way things were heading.

 

[IntoxicatingToxin]

I consider it to be thoughtful. It doesn't seem too intimate for me at all.

 

[Wish-4-8]

Wait! What happened to the people that only have oral sex until they are comfortable enough to go all the way? Or is that just high school?

 

[D_Kay_Sarah_Sarah]

Wait! What happened to the people that only have oral sex until they are comfortable enough to go all the way? Or is that just high school?

I think that just goes for giving blow jobs, doesn't it?

 

[helgaleena]

Maybe they don't have high schools in London, lol... there are regional differences and generational differences in our cultures still. Good point though. In helgaleena's ideal world, all the little teens wouldbe doing 69 and not overpopulating the planet.

 

[435782]

I'm really shocked by some of these answers, and the question itself. Apparently I have been grossly misinformed on the natural progression of most relationships. Kissing, fondling, oral sex, intercourse. Am I the only one that remembers the baseball analogy? lol.

 

[dolfette]

i'm always amazed at how willing people are to put the most fragile part of their body between someone's teeth!
if i took my knife and tried to run it over your body, said you'd like the way it tickles, you'd run away crying.

 

[helgaleena]

Yes, what a horribly illogical design flaw, putting teeth near our tongues.

 

[eyescream]

I think it's hot. I remember having this one night stand where the guy goes down on me within the first 15 seconds. He definitely won some points because he made it clear from the start he's in it to please it.

 

[justacynic]

No idea. I'm a pussy licking whore though and have never been told to stop...

There were some girls/women in college who said receiving oral sex was more intimate than sex and they wouldn't want the guy to do that. I just figure it was sexual inmaturity given their degree of experience at the time (which was discussed).

 

[Mike7]

I think it's hot. I remember having this one night stand where the guy goes down on me within the first 15 seconds. He definitely won some points because he made it clear from the start he's in it to please it.

I agree. That's how how think of it from male view, I'm trying hard to please and tongue is just another tool.