Alright, so here's an interesting question for everyone. (I haven't yet posted on the forums, though I did chat a few times. I hope this would work as a good introductory post) 19, v-card still present, though that'll only be a technicality soon enough. Location withheld for now. I'm 5.5" long (6.5" if I lose weight, which I'm working on. I've had some success here), so I'm just around average length. My question here isn't so much with length as it is with girth and my plans with it: 6.5" I'm meeting with a woman I've known for a while. Sex came up as a topic and now does so frequently, though both of us are waiting for the perfect person to lose it with. With this in mind, we settled on anal as a good idea. However, neither of us have actually tried it with anyone, so my question surrounds general safety tips and other tips for anal sex. Things like "what kind of lube? speed? condom yes/no?" She's saying no, hence why I'm asking about this. We're both ddfree, so STDs aren't an issue, but the rectum is still rather notorious for carrying many, many, many different types of bacteria. I guess all of my questions surround the (non)use of a condom. Is it possible to have safe anal sex without one? What tips should I follow in this case? If not, I'm fine with using a condom. I just want her to get what she wants, but I want it to be safe. I'm not thin, and I don't want to rip her apart.