going further with a j/o buddy

[287816]

how do u get to go further!?!?!

my mate came round, we watched porn and jerked off, (not showin our cocks), anyway he was cleanin up and i saw it and he knows i did but he didnt mean for me to, anyway now i really wanna suck it/touch it, so how could i go further!!!!!

 

[scottbud]

I wouldnt make any moves at all on him. Just keep going with the flow I assume he is straight? even if he isnt he will give you a sign if he wants to go further and it will be a much more memorable experience for both of you if you wait for the go ahead before making a move. It could be something as suttle as longer than normal eye contact while you are both jacking off.

 

[rover86]

get an 18pk of beer and a hardcore porn dvd, but like scott said i wouldnt make the first move... and make sure you let us know how it turns out

 

[287816]

he's straight, he knows im bi, and hes not a huge drinker (abit of a medical thing), but i think mayb some porn, booze and starrin might work, any other techniques?

 

[rover86]

cronic

 

[rover86]

wait a minute. actually i take that back -- if he knows your bi; i think its one of two things... either he's so straight and comfortable with it, its not a biggie... the other, he wants to make mouth babies with you.

 

[5davidstar]

as soon as he makes that first move though, just GO FOR IT . . . til your hearts content and then ask him if you can take a pic and post it here! LOL!

 

[kevin8307]

I would say to start out first by showing each other your cocks...next time you two are jerking to porn together, take out your cock and start jerking out in the open. Don't make a big deal of it, and he may join you. This may get him more comfortable with the idea, and may lead to more.

 

[Jonathan2/11]

The next time yall are watching a porn movie put on a gay one and if he does not like the idea of watching a gay film then just take it off and say my bad wrong movie but if he does like the idea of watching it then maybe u might have a chance

 

[deleted3782]

I would say to start out first by showing each other your cocks...next time you two are jerking to porn together, take out your cock and start jerking out in the open. Don't make a big deal of it, and he may join you. This may get him more comfortable with the idea, and may lead to more.

I agree...make yours available for him to see, and maybe he will follow suit. Then if it feels right, give a compliment. Maybe you can work yourself into an assistant position. Baby steps. Don't scare the straight boy.

 

[NIMBUS]

Thirded. Next time you're watching porn and wanking together, just make an excuse about how uncomfortable it is trying to keep your cock hidden and how stupid it is when you both know exactly what is going on. Tell him you're going to get your cock out unless he really strongly objects and then just whack off in front of him. He'll almost certainly follow suit, unless he's a real prude (but then, if he was, he wouldn't be wanking with you anyway!).

 

[BigDikkedGuy]

that is so weird i have never had a jack off buddy lol but i think its funy as well

 

[D_Coyne Toss]

You guys are right. Many of you described exactly what happened the first time I jerked off with a friend of mine.

I have never had the desire to go further with any of them, but if asked a "no, thanks" would have been my reaction.

The only advice I can give you is to go slowly in trying to get anything more than a jerk off: some guys can get scared, or even violent, moreover you jeopardize your friendship.

 

[ricksbigdick]

I would agree with some of the other guys, just whip it out when you are in the middle of j/o. He'll probably just join right in afterward.