Going Limp During Penetration

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  1. pablovian

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    Alright guys, I need some insight.
    I have a great girl that makes me horny. But I always seem to go limp after I have penetrated her. I've even taken Viagra and it still happens. I'm sure it's some stupid mental thing - but I have no idea what that could be. Any help would be appreciated.
     
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    classic case of performance anxiety....just got through it myself.....happens once then it seems to build....you will get through it bro...try to just relax...google performance anxiety for some tips
     
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    SORRY bud...yeah it happens...but dang..normally after a few years....medical reason?..mental reasons??....do you stay hard if she does you by Hand or Mouth??..Is it possible you feel guilty over this and the penis is getting wrong signal from big head??...and has this happened everytime??....
     
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    It could be something like positional ED. There have been previous threads about the subject, so it's worth searching through.

    It shows up in different ways. Some guys get limp when they're on top, but are fine if their partner's on top. Experiment with various positions and see how you get on.
     
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    You may want to get that checked out by a doctor. The penis sometimes shows health problems before anything else does. It's a barameter of the vascular system. It could be just your nerves but better safe than sorry.
     
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    I think it's psychological, and the more you stress the more it's likely to fail. If you worry if it's hard or not, then it will surely not be hard.

    One technique is to take control of your throughts during the act, and pro-actively chase away any negative thoughts. I have also seen self-hypnosis mp3s on the Internet, which may help you. It's not hypnosis as much as meditation on positive thoughts about sex, which is quite safe.

    Another way of overcoming performance anxiety is through injection therapy, and the injectable Caverject will make you hard and keep you hard regardless of what's going on in your mind.
     
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    You did not state your age. Are you uptight about satisfying her?

    I would submit what others have stated. You may be suffering from performance anxiety. If this situation last for over two weeks I would consult a Doctor as others have recommended.

    By all means post a follow up message here.
     
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    Actually, I would probably consult a doctor to make sure it's not physical, but follow that up with a psychologist who should be able to help.
     
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    Could be a symptom of stress and fatigue too. I experienced this very problem not too long ago. Would be completely hard until sticking it in and then it would go limp after a few strokes even though it felt really good. I hadn't been sleeping well at the time and work has been a bitch. A few nights of really good sleep and a few days off from work and I was back to normal. Also, had to cut back on the caffeine because I was over using it at that time too and I know this can have a negative impact on your hardons.

    Hope you get over it because I know how frustrating this can be.
     
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