Going To Bottom For The First Time Soon

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Hey,

as the title suggests, i have never bottomed before. I’ve been speaking with this guy and he’s going to top me. He wanted to have sex today but I’m not prepared to take his dick just yet...


The problem is, my hole is way too tight. At most i can probably fit 2 fingers in, but just barely. sunday night i bought a dildo, about 7 inches not that thick, and i can’t even get the head in. So i know it’s going to be almost impossible to take that guys dick because he’s a bit longer and a bit thicker. It even hurts to put the dildo in, although it also kinda feels good.

what should i do to prepare to take his dick, and to make bottoming easier? Any tips on making dildo play less painful and easy? Any tips to make bottoming less painful?

Side note: i also know I’ll need to douche but I’m not exactly sure how to do that. Anything helps
 
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Hey,

as the title suggests, i have never bottomed before. I’ve been speaking with this guy and he’s going to top me. He wanted to have sex today but I’m not prepared to take his dick just yet...


The problem is, my hole is way too tight. At most i can probably fit 2 fingers in, but just barely. sunday night i bought a dildo, about 7 inches not that thick, and i can’t even get the head in. So i know it’s going to be almost impossible to take that guys dick because he’s a bit longer and a bit thicker. It even hurts to put the dildo in, although it also kinda feels good.

what should i do to prepare to take his dick, and to make bottoming easier? Any tips on making dildo play less painful and easy? Any tips to make bottoming less painful?

Side note: i also know I’ll need to douche but I’m not exactly sure how to do that. Anything helps
First thing is you need to say to the guy you’ve never bttm before and tell him to be gentle and go at your own pace
Secondly use lots of lube more lube the better. Lube ur ass then the dildo lye on ur back a pillow under your ass relax take your time when sliding the dildo in it will hurt at first once it’s in stop get used to how it feels once you feel comfortable slide it deeper then play with it move it in and out once then you should feel more pleasure and enjoy it. Try it out a couple of time before the real thing
Thirdly douche you can but not always needed watch what you eat before hand sometimes just a finger up there 20 min before is enough to make sure ur clean
 
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