yeah, crack, you have messed up taste in womens!
i'm not saying bestest buds with all. i'm saying on civil/friendly terms with at least one or two.
They have to dump me for that - but they just don't seem to want to! Maybe it's because I overwhelm them with romanticism & great sex at the start, & after that, the fact that most of them don't like sooo many things that they think are inconsiderate is negated by my overall kindness, & thoughtfulness, & that makes me a paradox that simply does not compute - & literally confuses them?
I've become quite good at writing songs from a woman's point of view!:wink:
Ramsey: Have you ever watched How I Met Your Mother? All the break ups in that seem to go well, somehow!
I still think that you should have an open & honest conversation with her - maybe she's been holding back, & she just needs the key to unlock it.
If that isn't the case, tell her what your looking for, & tell her that you feel that she's just settling for you, which you're flattered by, but ultimately you think that you're both depriving each other of something better.
She might have settled for you, but if she cares for you, doesn't she think that you have the right to try & find a relationship that gives you more?
BTW, monstro may well be right too. You may well have read this completely wrongly, & she might also for all you know, think that she's doing you a favour.
In which case, it's a win-win situation. Whatever happens, if you're open & do the stand up honest thing, no one can call you on it. You will have done the right thing.
Do it, do it this weekend - & let us know! Good luck!