I'm excited and nervous. Anyone got any tips pointers, things to try. I'm sorry if this is the wrong section too. But wanted to talk about it
Don't eat for at lest 24 hours and before u go shit and duche makeing sure to get all the water out or you'll have a mess. for your first time you should either ride him or lay on your side and bring the top leg up to your chest while keeping the other extended. use a ton of lube water based if you're going to use condoms also like someone said bare down after he gets the head and at lest an inch of the shaft in but not to much
This is good advicealthough I dont think you have to fast. If you douche, which I recommend, do it at least an hour beforehand to make sure all of the water comes out. Douching is not merely about hygiene; its easier and more comfortable if theres nothing else to get in the way up there.
Its really important to get loosened up first. Rimming is best (although your partner might not be into it) and then fingering. Go slow and take your time.
As romantic as it might be, do not try missionary at first, or even second. This is one of the hardest positions to get fucked in based on anatomy and geometry. On your side is best.
Not to scare you, but if youre like many, expect a sharp, possibly excruciating, pain right when he gets about a third of the way in. If that happens, tell him to stop, hold it there and breathe deeply. If its too much, tell him to pull out, wait two minutes and try again. Once your ass gets used to the initial shock, itll relax. Dont get discouraged.
Finally, getting fucked is 90 percent psychological. You have to really, really want it. Your anal sphincter is an involuntary muscle controlled by your brain. You have to psych yourself up for it. I strongly suggest articulating what you want out loud. You may feel silly and sound like a cheap porn star, but if you say things like: I want your cock in my ass, your brain will help your hole to relax. It really works.
Were expecting a full blow-by-blow report on your adventure. Have fun!
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