Going to lose my anal/gay virginity tomorrow

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I'm excited and nervous. Anyone got any tips pointers, things to try. I'm sorry if this is the wrong section too. But wanted to talk about it:)
 

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Hope you have a great time. Expect it to be a little sore at first. Use plenty of lube and spend time fingering yourself or getting him to finger you. Anal sex is amazing so go for it!
 

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I'm on my phone so don't know if I can upload this way. But don't have any at the moment either. Yeah we are going for it all. I want to give and receive. I age put things in my arse before like a carrot with a condom on and got the whole thing in. It hurt for. A minute or some then it was fine when I relaxed and got down to the thick end. But anything I should do to prepare before I go to his? And anything I should do with him that's really good and feels amazing?
 

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My wife says anal is much smoother if you "bare down" during pentration.

Watch out for jagged finger nails!

No such thing as "too much lube"!

Maybe get a butt plug and stretch yourself out a little?
 

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ok cool..i would like to see that ass that is going to get pounded....its good that you like to give and receive...i like to give my cock only to a nice ass :)......i know when ive fucked a buddy of mine...i liked for him to ride me...then doggie style.....if ur friend has a big cock then i would say put lots of baby oil in that his on his cock....lube what ever will make his cock slide in...i did all this to my cock while i fukked my buddy really good....go buy u a dildo and get that ass ready bro
 

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You might be better off getting on top the first time, you won't be as tense or nervous if you're in control.

I read that a long time ago and that how I broke in a few females that were anal virgins.
 

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I'm surprised that you are doing this, since you consider yourself "99% straight". You may need to change those statistics a bit after this!!
Where did you meet this guy and how did you hook up sexually?
Any concerns about disease?
I can not offer any advice since I have neither "topped or bottomed".
 

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Don't eat for at lest 24 hours and before u go shit and duche makeing sure to get all the water out or you'll have a mess. for your first time you should either ride him or lay on your side and bring the top leg up to your chest while keeping the other extended. use a ton of lube water based if you're going to use condoms also like someone said bare down after he gets the head and at lest an inch of the shaft in but not to much
 

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Don't eat for at lest 24 hours and before u go shit and duche makeing sure to get all the water out or you'll have a mess. for your first time you should either ride him or lay on your side and bring the top leg up to your chest while keeping the other extended. use a ton of lube water based if you're going to use condoms also like someone said bare down after he gets the head and at lest an inch of the shaft in but not to much

This is good advice—although I don’t think you have to fast. If you douche, which I recommend, do it at least an hour beforehand to make sure all of the water comes out. Douching is not merely about hygiene; it’s easier and more comfortable if there’s nothing else to get in the way up there.

It’s really important to get loosened up first. Rimming is best (although your partner might not be into it) and then fingering. Go slow and take your time.

As romantic as it might be, do not try missionary at first, or even second. This is one of the hardest positions to get fucked in based on anatomy and geometry. On your side is best.

Not to scare you, but if you’re like many, expect a sharp, possibly excruciating, pain right when he gets about a third of the way in. If that happens, tell him to stop, hold it there and breathe deeply. If it’s too much, tell him to pull out, wait two minutes and try again. Once your ass gets used to the initial shock, it’ll relax. Don’t get discouraged.

Finally, getting fucked is 90 percent psychological. You have to really, really want it. Your anal sphincter is an involuntary muscle controlled by your brain. You have to psych yourself up for it. I strongly suggest articulating what you want out loud. You may feel silly and sound like a cheap porn star, but if you say things like: “I want your cock in my ass,” your brain will help your hole to relax. It really works.

We’re expecting a full blow-by-blow report on your adventure. Have fun!
 
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Some people are saying use fingers. I personally don't like fingers and have read that it isn't good to use fingers. There will be some pain, but I find that if he goes in, I hurt, he removes it completely, and I wait for the pain to subside it's a lot easier when he puts it back in. I you're going to use condoms, I think silicone lube like wet platinum or astroglide platinum is safe. They're far better than water based lubes which tend to dry out and need constant reapplication. If you're not using condoms, silicone is also good, but Elbow Grease is a really good oil based lube, it comes in a small tub.
 

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This is good advice—although I don’t think you have to fast. If you douche, which I recommend, do it at least an hour beforehand to make sure all of the water comes out. Douching is not merely about hygiene; it’s easier and more comfortable if there’s nothing else to get in the way up there.

It’s really important to get loosened up first. Rimming is best (although your partner might not be into it) and then fingering. Go slow and take your time.

As romantic as it might be, do not try missionary at first, or even second. This is one of the hardest positions to get fucked in based on anatomy and geometry. On your side is best.

Not to scare you, but if you’re like many, expect a sharp, possibly excruciating, pain right when he gets about a third of the way in. If that happens, tell him to stop, hold it there and breathe deeply. If it’s too much, tell him to pull out, wait two minutes and try again. Once your ass gets used to the initial shock, it’ll relax. Don’t get discouraged.

Finally, getting fucked is 90 percent psychological. You have to really, really want it. Your anal sphincter is an involuntary muscle controlled by your brain. You have to psych yourself up for it. I strongly suggest articulating what you want out loud. You may feel silly and sound like a cheap porn star, but if you say things like: “I want your cock in my ass,” your brain will help your hole to relax. It really works.

We’re expecting a full blow-by-blow report on your adventure. Have fun!


This is really good advice. If you have enough time between now and then, you might try buying a small dildo and practicing. Lots and lots and lots of lube, pour it on, and silicon is the way to go. Whatever you do about eating, do NOT do something like Taco Bell (trust me) between now and then. Eat some pineapple to sweeten up your cum ;-). Don't eat lunch day of. Go get an enema kit and use it about 2 hours before. Clean is good.

For most people, it hurts the first insertion. You've gotten good advice above.

And we want the whole story!!!
 

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Hey sorry guys, had to postpone sight he guy. As I have gotten a job interview now. It takes priority as I'm between jobs and now low on money. But when it's back on ill let you all know how it goes. Thanks for the awesome advice. Cheers
 

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Plenty of foreplay and fingering, plenty of lube and lots of patience when he's inserting his dick. It's awesome when it's comfortable, and comfort comes with patience and experience.