going to nude beaches

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  1. greek18

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    This is my first time starting a topic and I hope it doesn't seem silly. I live in Greece, (as my name must witness) and there are a lot of nude beaches which I have attended but with my swimming trunks on. I would like to go to these beaches and take off my clothes, but I know.....no doubt, that I will get a hard on. None of the guys on these beaches I have been to had hard ons and I don't want to be the only horney guy around. How do they do it? Its it a practice makes perfect thing? Did these soft guys get hard when they first started going to nude beaches? or am I just too horney?
    Any suggestions?
     
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    Go, find a nice spot, strip down and enjoy the sun. Then into the surf. Next, a walk on the beach. You will be surprised at how comfortable and relaxed you become in just a short amount of time. If you should start sprouting wood, return to your towel and lay down on your belly. You will find, and be amazed at how "normal" and "comfortable" you will become. Throwing a hard on will become much less of an issue. Go, enjoy yourself and be free. It is liberating. Lucky you, living in Greece. Enjoy the sun, the sand and the water. And! whether or not you have seen one in person, you will NOT be the first guy to sprout wood. There's just a certain amount of decorum envolved and you will learn by experiencing and paying attention. NOW, hit the beach and drop those drawers.
     
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    I worried about the same thing the first time I went full monty, but I think you will find nude beaches are not about sex as much as they are about freedom and openness. And if you begin to get aroused, jump in the cold water or roll over onto your stomach until you calm down. BUt definitely try it - it is fun!
     
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    I went nude once in St. John, Virgin Islands...Actually not that comfortable with it...Felt like a pervert...Definitely kind of liberating but not for me...
     
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    I went to Sandy Hook in Northern New Jersey last week. It was my first time at a nude beach. I loved it. Such a wide range of people. Wasn't nearly as sexual a vibe as I was expecting...
     
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    hey chick: I hope you don't mind a female response.

    I have only been to one nude beach, the one in St. Marrten, but I found that the majority of people on the beach were old and wrinkly. Not exactly erotic visions.

    I only took my top off, but my exhusband went fully nude and as much as a horn dog as he is, he didn't get hard. If it didn't affect him, I have faith for anyone.

    I agree with just getting used to being naked outside in front of people and you'll get used to it. If you do, however, get hard, just make sure that you're in the line of vision of some pretty young thang.
     
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    Hey chick is right about nude beaches having actually a very low sexual vibe, but I would advise that erections need to be handled (no pun intended) with care and discretion. Overt sexual behavior or aggression is frowned upon at many nude beaches...unless, of course, you are at Hedonism or something like that, in which case: bone up, my friend.
     
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    Yeah I definitely didn't get turned on and there were a lot of young people when I went with nice bodies but did get weirded out when I saw my friends older aunt topless there...
     
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    orionsword57:
    I'm old and wrinkly, have been to the nude beach on St. Bart's, and agree that there's not a lot of excitement at these places, except when you have sex with your partner after everyone's left.
     
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    Well I go to nude beaches from time to time (including a few times this summer). I always stay close-ish to my spot or blanket when I feel something happening down there!
     
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    zgirl248: i could give you a hand with some lotion, if you know what i mean!
     
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    And which nude beach would that be Horse?
    It's always a nice treat to see a horse while at the beach! :evilgrin:
     
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    I love nude beaches and have visited them all over the world. I agree with WilsonStreet that the sex vibe is low (unless of course you're at a big ol' gay cruising beach and looking for a romp in the dunes)...

    Most often, my boyfriend and I go to Robert Moses Beach in New York and to Haulover Beach in Florida. I have never seen any hanky-panky there. Some of my gallery pictures were taken on a nude beach in Australia, and even there, no one was overtly sexual.

    Bring a towel, a one-sentence book, a pair of dark sunglasses, lots of sunscreen, and lie back and enjoy the scenery and the experience of being nude in a gorgeous setting.

    If you get a boner, relax and be happy you're young and horny -- it'll go down and you'll be ok.
     
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    While I appreciate the sentiments that there's nothing to worry about and you probably won't get hard, that may work for some guys but not everyone. There have been a few guys on the board, me included, who don't have control over where we get hard and where we don't, and it isn't a matter of wanting to or not. Sometimes worrying about popping a boner is enough to bring one on and then trying to not worry about it just makes you think about it and...well then it's all over. Try it and see if it happens. If it were me, I'd just put my shorts on again and try later.
     
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    From my (pretty little) nude beach experience, I don't know what's the fuss about getting hard/not getting hard - I mean, I'd not try to hide it, and also I don't mind walking the nude beach with a hard Roddy stretching there - if people go to nude beaches, they should not have problems with seeing hard-on's, so if they see one, I assume they don't mind.

    Bruce
     
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    And use that sunscreen! Last week I hit a nude beach with some friends and brothers. One did not use lots of lotion down there [for fear of popping a boner], and yea, the equipment and inner thighs turned red. He walked awfully strange for a few days.

    jay
     
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    Nude beaches come in two extremes: Either everyone's offended by your erection, or the entire environment's seedy.
     
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    The first time I went to a nude beach getting hard and looking like a pervert was a big concern...but like others have posted-- it really wasn't a problem.

    At times there were stirrings down below, but when everyone is naked and it being such a 'non-sexual' situation (vibe) my biggest worry was making sure that I had applied enough sunscreen.
     
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    Practice makes perfect.

    I suggest that you do these things to learn to separate nudity from sex in your mind: First, practice at home. If you don't already, start sleeping nude. As much as your living arrangements will permit, become a "home nudist." You will soon become very comfortable with your own nudity. If you will Google things like "nudism," "naturism," "nude recreation," etc., you will find plenty of web sites with photos of nude people of all kinds and ages doing non-sexual things. Look at these a lot until you're comfortable seeing naked people while you are nude. During the time you are doing this learning, avoid looking at photos of people who are aroused or engaged in sex, and do not masturbate at the computer or with porn. You want to teach yourself that nudity, although nice to see, does not equal sex and should not cause an erection.

    When you have learned to look forward to being nude and are confident of your self-control, plan your first trip to the beach in the nude. If you are like most others, the exhilerating freedom that you feel will keep your mind off arousal. Nudism is more about how it makes you feel toward yourself than about how much you get to see of others.
     
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    Well if it's any help, my new fiance (yes, I popped the question on our European vacation) and I just returned from Cap d' Agde, France which is arguably the largest nudist city in the world during the months of July and August. During any given day in the quartier naturiste you will be among 15,000 other exposed penises and a like number of breasts and female genitilia walking along the beach, shopping at the Heliopolis and Port Ambonne grocery stores and shops, and dining at the various restaurants. The number of erections we saw (before 7 pm) you could count on one hand.

    After that time the number escalated in the portion of the beach in front of the dunes below the Beuvette de Marsellion restaurant when the guards left their shack. While we didn't see any of the wild goings on some have told us went on years ago, a few couples got pretty frisky right there on the beach in the late day. And I have to say, ego aside, I got a LOT of encouraging looks by folks who wanted to see the garden hose reeled out and stiffened. This only started to happen once when Jen and I were parked next to a particularly attractive Dutch couple, the woman was in her early twenties, blonde and smoking hot... and eying my dick all afternoon to the extent I could "feel" her eyes on it. (Note: social decorum for a newly engaged man is to pretend there is no smoking hot 6' Dutch blonde on an adjacent beach towel with a toned body, blue eyes, perfect teeth, tear drop shaped melons with light tan aureole mentally measuring your penis at every chance.) Lord give me strength!

    On Tuesday 7:13 pm it happened. Miss Amsterdam rose from her towel to get another soft drink from their cooler and me eyes went straight for her luscious nether area like a Navy SEAL sniper marksman ranging his target; my cock started to reel out despite all my valient efforts. Jen instantly shot me a nasty glance like "don't you dare show-off that thing to her- I OWN it now." No evening sex, threat of castration, nothing could stop my dick's erection and lust for this babe from the shores of the North Sea. Nothing except...

    I didn't tell you about the enormous number of single guys roaming the grounds of Cap d' Agde. Straight- single- whatever, they are in incredible numbers with absolutely no single female equivalents to be found. If any single male expects to hook with a woman at Cap d' Agde he'd have better luck in Stromfjord, Greenland. There aren't any. But they roam the beach nevertheless staring longingly at whatever their sexual proclivities indicate. And among this unattached mass was a little man, a gay retired music professor from the U.S. who looked amazingly like Dr. Zachary Smith from the old Lost In Space TV show. About 5' 3" he walked with bowl legs and a western hat that made his nude beach gaint look like a phallic gunslinger at the O.K. Corral. For some uncanny reason this guy always managed to be around us, looking at me constantly like some perverted leprechaun in heat. It gave me the creeps no matter how accepting I am of alternative lifestyles.

    So...just as my penis threaten to break the seldom exceeded penile measurment in the human race, the lofty 12" mark on its way to the full 13," my field of vision spots Dr. Smith, the evil elf himself, with an expression on his face as if he just traded in the entire Robinson family and the Robot for a sack of magic beans; hiding on a face cloth of a towel on the other side of my Perfect 10 Euro babe! No amount of Viagra in Languedoc-Roussillion France could salvage an erection now.

    Hope my Summer 2005 experience serves as a lesson big guy. Nude beach fantasy verses reality.
     
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