Going to stay with a friend i haven't seen for 5 years?HELP!

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  1. hugebulge

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    Hi everyone,
    i need a bit of help,i'm going to stay at a friends house that i aint seen for 5 years, we did used to be close, but i was never as open and stuff with my body and wanking etc....we watched porn a few times together....got hard....didnt wank though. Anyway...enough about the history...i am planning to stay with him for a week...he lives in a 1 bedroom apartment and we will be sharing a bed...what underwear should ii take? What should i wear iin bed? What should i wear around the house etc? Advise...i want to be myself with him...just dont want to freak him out....from what i remember....he was slightly open with me...we knew how big each other were but now i am obviously much bigger etc....just tips and advise of what 2 do guys and girls? p.s. he has always seemed to have a bigger cock than me...so i wouldn't mind any tips on giving myself a bigger bulge or any underwear that can give me a bigger bulge? :)
     
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    You're fucking kidding, right? What are you...14? And you are 99% straight? Better check that number...

    I'm sorry. I'm not usually so mean. But...really, guy! Just take it as it comes. The things some people obsess over...damn.
     
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    Pouch type underwear will define it, but I don't think anything but padded underwear are going to make you look bigger.

    As far as what to wear. Take some shorts or sweats that show your bulge. That way you are prepared if he is a bit modest, but still can feel proud :biggrin1:. You don't have to wear them if things work out that way.

    Unless you're leaving right away, you might work it into a conversation and either directly address the subject, or feel it out.

    Not sure what "Yourself" is? What about yourself might freak him out? That way we might be able to direct you a little better.

    Good Luck and enjoy your visit :smile:
     
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    haha, no i am not kidding
    yeah i jjust want to be myself, but dont want to be 2 much myself :s
     
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    hmmm....pouch type underwear....i shall consider that....i dont want to be tooo revealing :p
    hmmm....not the season for shorts....i may take some like short rugby shorts to lounge around in :)
    i will try and get it into conversation but can be difficult...he is way too busy
    welll...."myself" is basically...im just a really open kind of guy....i like lazing around naked....if i see some hot girl on the tv, i get hard and start stroking myself....i have no self control...i'm just really horny and that may freak him...thanks mate :)
     
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    just be yourself
     
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    Oh yeah....his apartment complex has a pool so the chances are we will be going swimming a lot and he has some hot neighbours....i want to look bigger than him in my swim stufff....suggestions please?
     
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    Sorry I do not know anyone who would do that whilst staying with a friend they are not that close with before reaching an understanding about that sort of behaviour.

    OK picture this. I've a really good pal from school who I haven't seen for years and years. If we met up I know it would just be like old times. There was never anything sexual between us and he's straight but we were great pals. I go stay with him. He walks into the lounge and I'm on the sofa pulling my plonker like a good un. He looks shocked. I say "sorry I was horny and I've no self control". "Oh that's OK then" Yeah right.:rolleyes:

    What utter bollocks and bullshit.
     
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    I have just had a quick look....what do u think of this stuff....bearing in mind also that he has some hot neighbours and i may hopefully open the door to people in some of these things :p
    i dont want any1 to think that i am dressing special for my mate....i have some really outrageous stuff at home....i just want some stuff that i willl be comfortable in but arent too bad for his house :)
    BumGear Mesh Royal Blue T-ShirtBGM-105-ROYat Nuwear.com
    BumGear Sheer Mesh JockstrapBGM-101at Nuwear.com
    CockSox Swimwear BriefCX02at Nuwear.com
    Private Structure Korea Running Short208-WU-0358at Nuwear.com
    N2N Lounge ShortL2at Nuwear.com
    comments please? :)
     
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    Let me get this straight. You claim to be 99% straight. You're staying with a buddy, who I will assume is straight. You're shopping the "erotic wear" section of a gay online underwear store. What are you looking for on your visit? Sounds like your percentages are apt to change
     
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    Well, I really like the lounge shorts and think that those could possibly be pulled off (interpret that however you want :wink:), but the first couple, lots here would like them, but...If you don't want to freak him out,,,I'd pass on those, lol.
     
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    Ok you kinda of sound like you want to dress up for him in a non-chalant sort of way that he wont notice but does notice.....It just sounds ridiculous just pack your clothes and stay over and get over it. No need to impress just be yourself and if you go to the pool your weiner or his isn't going to impress people its just going to be lewd. So just dress accordingly and have a good time. BTW if you do shop nuwear.com its pretty borderline that your % is about to change cause the stuff you picked out sounds like your dressing up for him and not for the "hot neighbors". CHEERS Have FUN!
     
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    Thanks for not being so critical at the stuff i was looking at and thanks for the advise, probably just being myself would be the best idea :)
     
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    Why are u wasting our time with such stupid crap? Figure it out for ourself.
     
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    The obvious line in your post is "I just want to be myself with him" then do just that. Wear what you would normally wear at home for lounging around in, swimming in, sleeping in. That is unless you have some hidden agenda your not admitting too, and in a roundabout way maybe seeking the approval of others in order to feel less guilty.

    If you want this friendship to continue then dont try to be someone other than yourself, otherwise like the rest of us he will see right through you and the trip could be an out and out disaster, never to be repeated.
     
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    Regardless if you are gay or straight, let's set a few guidelines:

    [1] If you going to be around friends or strangers, never wear torn underwear
    [2] Since you are only there for 5 days, you should primarily focus on just having 5 pair of underwear staples. If you want to be fashionably straight/ambiguously gay, then wear 2Xist or CKs with a contour pouch. Only wear white, black, or grays to be on teh safe side.
    [3] If you want to play a "homoerotic" game, which many men do - gay, straight, married, or single - then have a few additional pair that are non-standard. By "non-standard", I am referring to colored underwear that is red, blue, or green. You may consider one with a subtle pattern. Anything that is loud, such as mandarin orange, yellow, pink, or heavily patterned says "gay" more visibly.
    [4] Regardless if you are gay or straight, don't wear anything sheer unless you are actively trying to attract an individual. Basically, only wear sheer items if you have already been naked around an individual for more than 2 minutes, or you plan on not revealing the sheer underwear.
    [5] Don't wear thongs or string bikinis if you don't want to have your friend raise an eyebrow.
     
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    ^^EXCELLENT ADVICE.

    I can't agree with the people who say "Just be yourself" because it sounds like you dress a little slutty for a str8 dude.

    PLUS you are a guest in his home so you need to be on your best behavior. What that means is, you don't do things in his house that he doesn't do. So best behavior varies with the host. Some things are OK with one host but not another. In other words, you can still spit on the floor if you want to, but only if he does it. Let your host set the tone for the visit, including dress and decorum. Take your cues from him.

    And let's face it -- Civilization is built on us not being ourselves! All manners would go out the window and society would collapse.

    I also have to say I think the reason you are obsessing over this is that you feel he is more hung than you are. That's a trap you can't fall into. No matter how big a dude is, there is always someone bigger. Not many, but some. Don't let this obsession ruin your visit. Focus on renewing your friendship with a person you haven't see in 5 years.
     
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    What a great word that we need to be using more often in the USA
     
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    Ol' hugebulge here is NOT 99% straight.....
     
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    Dude, is this guy gay? I lived in a one bedroom apartment for several years and a lot of my str8 friends came to visit and they ALL slept on the couch except for this one dude who was 6'3" and too tall to sleep on my couch so I let him have my queen sized bed and I slept on the couch. There was never any discussion of them sharing a bed with me and I did not suggest it because I knew they were str8 and sharing a bed with another dude would probably be a little too gay for them.

    The only time I have ever shared a bed with a straight dude was once when I stayed at a college roommate's parent's beach cottage and all of the rooms had double beds so I had to share with my roommate. The place only had three bedrooms and his parents wer in one and his sister was in the other so we had to share.

    Seriously dude I would just wear boxers or boxerbriefs if you are going to be sleeping in the bed with him. If he is a straight guy he is not going to care how big your cock is or what kind of underwear you are wearing.
     
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