You both ignored my point that there are monogamous animals. How did those relationships form? You claim the matings are instinctual. So there are both instincts. The instinct to be monogamous and polygamous. Otherwise there would not be both in nature. Or do you think animals think a lot of their decisions? How do you explain that?
You just assume that the best mating behaviour is polygamy and the culture is responsible.
Science doesn't make value judgements on mating behavior and neither do I. Science reports facts in evidence. Remember that population studies report how most individuals behave, not all. This means there will always be many exceptions.
Yes there are many animal species which are monogamous but relatively few maintain it for life. A recent study showed that in Western Europe and the US 10-40% (it varied by place) of men listed on birth certificates as fathers of children were not their biological fathers.
But that is a problem of society that there are homeless people.
I think you missed my point. I was talking about whether females of our species consider poor males suitable mates. I was not making a statement about homelessness.
And how will they know of the status of the men if they dont know how rich and influential somebody is? You can be aroused by someone without having any information on him or her. The arousal is not responsible on that in my opinion. I think it is more on the look and appearance.
How? A simple question like "what do you do for a living?" is an instant wealth/class assessment. If the answer is doctor, lawyer, engineer, CEO or hedge fund manager we're talking $$$. If the answer is slinging hash at a fast food joint probably not.
Again population studies where women are asked to rank in importance a list of characteristics about the opposite sex, how much money a man has is consistently ranked highest by large majorities.
In those same studies women rank male attractiveness (looks) halfway down the list.
There's a ton of other data to support female attraction to high social status males. The extreme is groupie behavior where thousands of women go after and bed famous/wealthy men. Women swooning over and wishing they could marry a prince or monarch is another. Why do girls scream hysterically at boy bands? Because they're all competing with each other for the attention of those males. If one or two girls start screaming all the others have to join in.
I won't go into the studies that show when women are ovulating the pitch of their voice goes up and men notice this.
Another example is younger women marrying older men who are already established in their careers and wealth/social class--even stealing them from wives. I've known many.
As my mother, sisters, aunties, grannies and almost every women I've known have all said, "There's no such thing as an ugly millionaire."
And later a little bit on the status. But the status is more a imaginary power. Powerful are those people who society thinks are powerful.
Money IS power & status. There's nothing imaginary about it.