The fact that our species doesn't instinctually form lifetime monogamous heterosexual pair bonds.
And you have no proof of that. That is why I mentioned the animals, because I think humans have this instinct, too.
lol! Political systems have nothing to do with sexual selection instincts developed over the 300,000 year history of our species!
Religion forces them on us with death penalties in scripture for any sexual activity outside such a pair bond.
Population studies over many decades have shown again and again that human females select males based primarily on social status--the higher the better--not physical appearance or penis size.
This is instinctual behavior. The selection pressure for this over the last 300,000 years in females of our species is reproductive success.
You have to decide. at one time, you are saying the selection is instinctual, then you say it is not.
I think this can be both: instinctual and other factors.
But another of my points was that your assumption of instinctual behavior is incomplete, because I think we have a lot of different instincts in us (the monogamous and the polygamous, the one instinct for people of status and the one instinct for people in general regardless the status). You are generealizing one of the instinct and assume that is the dominating instinct.
Fact is there are both instincts in animals. So I think we have both instinct as humans, too.
Angela Merkel? Wow. You REALLY missed my point, lol! It's women who are instinctually attracted to wealthy powerful men not the other way around.
Men are attracted instinctually to women at or near the peak of their reproductive years which is early to mid-20s. That's why women are always trying to look young.
The selection pressure for adult female attraction to high social status males and for adult male attraction to young adult females is reproductive success
Ok so you dont desire wealthy men (as part of you being gay?), but you have similar DNA than women. If it is instinctual it is probably on the X-chromosoms or other chromonsoms and you have that, too.
Furthemore: my point is that women are also sexually attracted to men about whom they dont know the status (men in porn videos as an example). That would not be possible if they are only attracted to wealthy men.
In addition to that, you can equalize the status in a society so that everyone has the same status and then you cannot decide again as a women (if they all decide this way).