Gold's Gym - San Francisco Castro

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I put my clothes in the locker, showered, and then went into the steam room. It's pretty dark and I found a seat - although there were guys standing. I just lean my head back and relax, about 5 minutes later I pick my head up and there is a FULL BLOWN ORGY happening. At first I was really shocked and was going to leave but you were honestly packed in there by a bunch of men jacking, sucking, and who knows what else. I just put my head back and minded my own business until a few guys left and I was out of there. QUOTE]

This just totally reinforces the stereotype of gay men that I've seen and heard about--that they're really promiscuous and hyper sexual.

Your story is really disturbing and pathetic and I can't help but scratch my head at the people who are posting that it's hot.

My question is why did you 'close your eyes and mind your own business?' You should have left immediately. Weren't you concerned or at least aware that in such an environment, your presence is a tacit agreement with the vibe? Someone could have gone down on you...
 

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There. I just pinned your morality police badge on for you.

Now, it's Sunday, so pick up your Bible, and off to church with you!

My question is why did you 'close your eyes and mind your own business?' You should have left immediately. Weren't you concerned or at least aware that in such an environment, your presence is a tacit agreement with the vibe? Someone could have gone down on you...
 

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There. I just pinned your morality police badge on for you.

Now, it's Sunday, so pick up your Bible, and off to church with you!

Well, I'm not one to pass judgment, but that is lewd to do something like that in a private establishment that doesn't permit it. Especially, when some out-of-towners whom didn't show up for that reason is subjected to that type of behavior. It is the true means of the word 'inappropriate'.
 

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There. I just pinned your morality police badge on for you.

Now, it's Sunday, so pick up your Bible, and off to church with you!


Look, I'm no square. I know what's hot. My fantasies and sex life are scorching... :cool:

But I just don't view strangers having sex in public places as remotely acceptable. It's obnoxious. If someone pays for a gym membership, he should not have to be subjected to grown men who can't control sexual urges. In the name of what? Some liberating sexual lifestyle?

Someone who would be irritated, offended, or want to cancel their gym membership is not a simple minded church goer. Those would be the normal reactions.
 

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Look, I'm no square. I know what's hot. My fantasies and sex life are scorching... :cool:

But I just don't view strangers having sex in public places as remotely acceptable. It's obnoxious. If someone pays for a gym membership, he should not have to be subjected to grown men who can't control sexual urges. In the name of what? Some liberating sexual lifestyle?

Someone who would be irritated, offended, or want to cancel their gym membership is not a simple minded church goer. Those would be the normal reactions.

Yer jist jellis. Straight guys would do the same given the opportunity. If straight guys thought they could get blown after working out, the obesity epidemic would be cut in half.
 

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I ran into this same issue at gyms in a few different cities. I think you tend to see this going on at gyms that are serve the gay community.

As far as picking up an STDs, that is the least of your worries in a steam room. If they are not kept really clean it can be a petrie dish of biological specimens! The same can be said of the hot tub, that is why I tend to pass on going into either.

it’s just as much fun watching the parade go by from my nice warm shower….

I think you tend to see this at gyms where men get naked..... :tongue:
 

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This just totally reinforces the stereotype of gay men that I've seen and heard about--that they're really promiscuous and hyper sexual.
That really should read: This just totally reinforces the stereotype of all men.... that they're really promiscuous and hyper sexual.

If someone pays for a gym membership, he should not have to be subjected to grown men who can't control sexual urges. In the name of what? Some liberating sexual lifestyle?

Someone who would be irritated, offended, or want to cancel their gym membership is not a simple minded church goer. Those would be the normal reactions.
But....but....what about all those guys who pay for a gym membership anticipating that very purpose....??
 

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Look, I'm no square. I know what's hot. My fantasies and sex life are scorching... :cool:

But I just don't view strangers having sex in public places as remotely acceptable. It's obnoxious. If someone pays for a gym membership, he should not have to be subjected to grown men who can't control sexual urges. In the name of what? Some liberating sexual lifestyle?

Someone who would be irritated, offended, or want to cancel their gym membership is not a simple minded church goer. Those would be the normal reactions.
This post is mega old but as someone who IS gay and likes to enjoy the sauna/steam room, this stuff is SO annoying. To want to go in and relax and have someone trying to reach near you or hearing people jerking off unsolicited.

Has nothing to do with judgement, you pay for a gym membership and to use its amenities, not signing up to watch people have sex or sexual activities non stop.

It's hot to experience sexual tension in the environment, but it's definitely not appropriate to subject people to that behavior in public.
 

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Looking for a gym with open showers in SF to check out tomorrow. Any suggestions?
Only ones I know of these days with open showers is just the Fitness SF in Castro.

All the steamrooms have been closed at pretty much any gym but Equinox because of all the of things discussed in this thread basically. If you want to fool around, take it home or to a stall but leave it outta the showers and steamrooms please, we like having them.