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I've been (faithfully) with my boyfriend for almost 6 months now, recently there was a Sexual Health Drive and we agreed to do a complete test, pretty sure neither of us had anything.
Shockingly, I had a positive result for Anal Gonorrhoea, negative for Throat & Penile, and my boyfriend had negative for all three.
Why is it a mystery?
I have been faithful for these 6 months, have exerted no symptoms what so ever, have only bottomed with him twice in those 6 months (I'm mostly top) and my 2 other sexual partners before him used condoms when they topped me.
Besides, those 2 guys are friends of mine, and they get tested regularly and assure me they don't have and never have had any STD, which I fully believe, not that that's even relevant as we used condoms.
Which means the ONLY person I could have caught it off would be my boyfriend. But his result came back negative! I just don't understand. I know there can be false positives/negatives so they're going to retest us both to double check. Also I've read sometimes Gonorrhoea can go away on its own in some people, maybe his body fought it off but mine didn't? But we have unprotected sex regularly so surely I'd re infect him each time?
I've also been on Antibiotics twice in these 6 months, so there's a good chance they would have got rid of it?
I'm almost certain it's a false positive, but if it isn't how is it possible for me (the top) to have it but him not?!
He says he doesn't, but If I were him, I'd be thinking I'd cheated on him and caught it, it's so fustrating.
Anyone have any advice? :frown1:
Shockingly, I had a positive result for Anal Gonorrhoea, negative for Throat & Penile, and my boyfriend had negative for all three.
Why is it a mystery?
I have been faithful for these 6 months, have exerted no symptoms what so ever, have only bottomed with him twice in those 6 months (I'm mostly top) and my 2 other sexual partners before him used condoms when they topped me.
Besides, those 2 guys are friends of mine, and they get tested regularly and assure me they don't have and never have had any STD, which I fully believe, not that that's even relevant as we used condoms.
Which means the ONLY person I could have caught it off would be my boyfriend. But his result came back negative! I just don't understand. I know there can be false positives/negatives so they're going to retest us both to double check. Also I've read sometimes Gonorrhoea can go away on its own in some people, maybe his body fought it off but mine didn't? But we have unprotected sex regularly so surely I'd re infect him each time?
I've also been on Antibiotics twice in these 6 months, so there's a good chance they would have got rid of it?
I'm almost certain it's a false positive, but if it isn't how is it possible for me (the top) to have it but him not?!
He says he doesn't, but If I were him, I'd be thinking I'd cheated on him and caught it, it's so fustrating.
Anyone have any advice? :frown1: