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Discussion in 'Relationships, Discrimination, and Jealousy' started by Stephenmass, May 28, 2008.

  1. Stephenmass

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    Hey everyone, been lurking around for a bit and answered a few posts (not many). OK, if you meet a guy or woman you really love, and have not shared sexual relations as of yet, but EVERYTHING about them is perfect for you, do you leave because they don't "measure up" like a lot of the guys out here (or a knockout girl for all that matter?)? I'm not talking a tiny dick or something like that, say an average to smaller cocked guy had an incredible face, nice body, good shape, is perfect in how they treat you, etc., would you be disappointed if it were not LPSG size? Seems to me that is really shallow......far as I am concerned, it's tough enough truly meeting someone that is great in all respects, including a decent cock or nice set of tits and nice pussy, etc. But some of the cocks out here are huge (and half at least fake) and some of the women I believe are not who they claim either.

    Anyway, do you leave or stay? Keep in mind they are perfect in all aspects, except they do not measure up to your LPSG standard (which I believe in some cases is a gross exaggeration).

    Do you accept a person as they were born (and what they were born with?); meaning they have no control over how large they are endowed.

    I find it shallow to say the least.
     
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    Hey..... if a guy comes along and everything about him is great but he has an average willy... I'm gonna throw a party because I've found myself a great man!

    There is so so so so so much more to a relationship than sex. Don't get me wrong, it's important, but it's not the be all and end all. Besides, an average or even small penis doesn't equal bad sex. If you've got a great emotional connection, in my opinion, great sex will follow!

    Oh and welcome to the site :eek:) xxxxx
     
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    I think it must be truly frustrating to be a size queen.

    Now if we're talking about one night stands, those are easy to come by. Post an ad stating you're a size queen, and you're bound to get plenty of offers from well endowed men. But if this person is looking for a relationship, it would be kind of sad if they found the person with everything, but when it came to size he didn't measure up.

    Or how about finding the size you desire, but he doesn't have much else going for him? He might be lazy, have body odor, or no sense or humor. In that case, what good is that large penis? A large penis doesn't guarantee good sex for the recipient.

    I suspect not too many people will be happy with a well endowed man if that's all he has to offer.


     
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    I don't even like this expression. Measure up to what? He has what he is born with, as are women (except for breast enhancement or reduction). I'm the type of person that if you don't like what I look like or have for an endowment, go elsewhere, I would much rather have with me as a mate someone that appreciates me for who I am. I don't understand the "big dick" mentality. I have not had a ton of lovers, but the one who was on the smaller side was definitely the best I have ever had. He didn't pull out his dick expecting me to ohhhh and ahhhh, or wow. It was just a further extension of what we were doing.

    As for a woman's beauty (I was once bisexual), it's the same I think. It the initial attraction is there, and she has all the good qualities you seek, I believe everything else can be worked out.

    This BS on size has a lot to do with porn, etc.

    I hope "Monster" doesn't mind me using him as an example here. Hell yeah he has a LOT to offer in the penis dept, but physically if I saw him with clothes on, he's still a hot guy. From what I've seen him write out here, his qualities on the inside aren't wrapped around the size of his dick either. Good guy who "happens" to have a big dick to go with a big heart. The same can be said of women.

    Nothing wrong with sex, I love it just as much as the next guy, but all this "size" stuff is definitely overrated. I do not mean this as an insult to any of the LPSG membership.
     
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    I don't like it either. But some size queens demand a certain endowment, and claim they are not satisfied if they don't get it.

    I agree and that's a very healthy way to look at it. None of us want to be loved for one body part.

    And I've mentioned that before. It's about technique and positioning for most people. A large penis is not going to guarantee a partner great sex. I read a few posts about men complaining that their wives or g/f's are in pain the day following sex. After reading those posts, it's obvious that size is not everything to them and their partners. On the other hand, you have all these guys wishing they were larger.

    Of course. People post pics and videos from websites and rarely are the guys ever small or average. An entire generation of young men are growing up feeling inferior.

    That's what's hard to understand. If you're attracted to someone physically, like their personality and all they have to offer, it would be a shame to dump them because their penis is small or average.

    It is the LargePSG, but the guys who complain most are the ones who think they're not good enough because of their size. It's kind of sad.
     
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    first of all, you have to realize that a relationship, hetero, gay, or trisexual, is a relation. the love that unites peole is the same, so the problems are the same too... so NO crap like, men have it more easy sexually cause they can accept open relations, and women don't. BS!

    second, if YOU really love somebody, the physical part [a short dick as you where saying] isn't enough to pull apart the love that, apparentely exists. if someone breaks a relationship due to such a stupid thing, they're simply SHALLOW...
    I'm not saying that the love will sustain all the relation, but it isn't an insignificant detail like that, that will cut all the afection given and gained in the relation. and the other way around too. I'd never stay with someone just because of the guy's HUGENESS...!
    what would you do with that, put it in a t-shirt: I'M WITH DONKEY MAN [worship me!]

    so.. DON'T you be shallow, and have doubts about a future love due to small body parts... ;)


    p.s.: I have NO idea what a trisexual is.. but I'll TRY to know...! :)
     
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