good buddy who is small?

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  1. krs

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    Do you have a large endowment and have a friend who is smaller than average? What is it like for you and him? Does it impact your friendship? I am thinking here about straight guys who are good friends and have legitimate reasons to see each other naked (eg. locker room, roommates,etc.)
     
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    I have a great friend who is around 5" and not too girthy. There are absolutely no issues between us. Instead of being "blessed" with a huge cock, he was given an above average dose of intelligence, compassion and confidence. He has been very successful with the women. His current girlfrend has told me he is an amazing lover.

    My guess is that if I ever date one of his ex's. I'll be the one trying to measure up.
     
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    When I was 17 I finally got a chance at a friend of mine who was a year younger than me. I’d been friends with him for about a year and a half and wanted nothing more than to blow him. He was a hot, blonde bodybuilder. Once I had him on his bed and started pulling his shorts down over his rock hard cock, I started to realize that it wasn’t nearly as big as mine and might not be all that I thought it would be. I got all 5” of thin cock in my mouth and proceeded to give him “the best head of his life”. (His quote, not mine.) About a year later he & I tag-teamed a girl and he got his first glance at my cock. He then decided that he’d go down on her and let me do the fucking. Not that I’m all that huge, I’m only 7.5”, but he found he could better please women with his talented tongue than his cock. Many years later, after I came out to him, we got stoned one night and he talked about letting a guy fuck him. He said that he had fantasies about it and wanted to try it with me. He said that after seeing my cock so many years ago he wanted to be the one getting fucked, not the girl we were with. We were steady fuck buddies for a few years before he got married. To this day he still makes comments about me being “the better man”.
     
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    sounds like you got a closeness that is really appreciated by both of you
     
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    I am thicker and just altogether bigger than my best straight buddy. Though I think he is a total man and masculine beyond belief. He really likes the idea that he is big, though he is normal. I stroke his ego some and always compliment him on it. The guy must be a hell of a fuck anyway...but I would never want him to think I hold my size over him. He has seen me hard and likes the general look...I shake it off to some degree because I always want him to love his body and be proud of it.
     
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    To turn this a little on its head - I have a good buddy (straight) who initiated a sexual encounter with me and he turned out to be huge - and I'm like average (just over 6.5 inches). It changed things because after years of 'dick jokes' between us, I couldn't make them anymore and was really jealous over his big dick. He, in turn, was weirded out because he's always come across as straight but when we did this he took the more 'bottom' role.
    This support group has helped me hugely in realizing that guys have problems and benefits no matter what size they are - so its stopped me thinking he's better than me. I'd like to get him to read some of these posts so he can come to terms that a little sexual exploration and experimentation is perfectly normal - but alas there are some walls that have been put up around such frank talk. Anyway - thanks you guys and girls - you've helped alot!
     
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    yeah, you got to get him over this and get back to being buds...cause that is important
     
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    I am by no means large but my room mate is known to be on the small end of average. From what I have heard maybe 5 x 4 or so. Yet his personality and confidence more than make up for it, he beds more women than anyone I know.
     
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    In response to your post,I am very large[11+,cut unfortunately]and do have a very good friend who has just a little over 6".Unlike me,he is able to cum multiple times which is quite a turn on.If interested,I do have a couple photos of us masturbating together at my farm[jzinfo@core.com]
     
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    Sweet9 - funny you should mention that - thats one of the things that helped me in the 'a bigger dick doesn't mean he's more of a man than me' stakes - I'm multi-orgasmic. I can shoot - stay hard and shoot again (most I've done in a row was 8 over a few hours and at the end of that was practically dry orgasming - but on such a high!) - and thought, as I'd never been with a guy before this mate of mine, that all guys were the same but it just wasn't talked about as it was commonplace. I only knew I was different when I was sitting there in the armchair after the 2nd session hard as a rock and my mate was freaking out out partly because he thought he was going to have to 'satisfy me'! I had to explain that that was just me - and it dawned on me that we all have our things which make us individuals.

    saddest part of the night was that when we got into sleeping mode i so wanted to put my arm around him but he turned his back to me and gave off major 'dont touch me vibes'. I dont think it was even a 'gay feeling' on my part - I would have probably traded in everything physical we'd done that night just to have an emotional connection physically expressed for once.

    Hey - like a year or lurking and now I can't shut up! Sorry for the long and slightly off-topic posts - I'll develop a sense of humour and profess love fr alex8 like the rest of you real soon!

    Jonas
     
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    Funny I think I am pretty average almost 7in and consider myself straight w/bi tendacies sometimes....I usually hang out with a large group of straight guys and most are average to above average....The 3 I know that are below average probably get laid as much or more than the hottest guys in our group....They seem to be more confident and women really find that hot....I mean the one who I know is the smallest probably hooks up w/3 or 4 different women a week (he kind of a nempho), sometimes 2 at a time....So I really don't think size pays any role in their mind....This guy actually films most of his sexual encounters and shows them to us....It's pretty funny....
     
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    My situation is kind of the reverse of what you're talking about... I'm 6" and my best friend is no smaller than about 8" thick. (A drunken night with a few girls led to us double-teaming a girl, and my realization that my best friend is packin.) Our different sizes have had zero influence on our friendship, and we've even talked about it since then... but it's no big deal.

    Am I upset he's bigger than me? Absolutely not. I'm happy for him that he's hung. Would I also like to be hung? Of course. Are there more important things in life and in our friendship than penis size? Certainly.

    What's amazing is that our friendship has continued to grow, even after I told him I was bi. He's supported me 100% of the way and wants me to be happy, which is exactly what anyone contemplating coming out needs to hear. I'm so lucky to have a great friend like him.

    "Small" buddy Ack
     
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    My dick has no involvement with friends.
     
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    Yeah we never put each other down because of size....Of course guys like to talk about their dick size when they are packing but even though I am average, I have never had any compliants....If feel that is you are pretty good in the sack, you know how to work what you have and develop other skills in bed....
     
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    I have a small mate (looks like 4x3), who used also to be a bragger about his size. Once we compared he stopped speaking about his size and started thinking of me as a model of masculinity (so he told).

    On my opinion he is also intimidated by my size, but still asks me about my large equippment, how it feels so be big, and so on.
     
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    Years ago my best buddy and I went skinny-dipping in a secluded lake. After we came out of the water, and he saw my cock hard, he was totally stunned. He had a nice 5" uncut cock that he thought was big, but when he saw my 8+" he just wanted it. We both decided to try sucking. I took his entire cock in, but he could only handle about half of mine. Now after many years, when we get together, he asks me if it's still that big, and needs to have me get it out and give him a look.
     
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    I personally haven't had any encounters of that sort, but the guys that have posted here that are down about their size are all larger than average, so don't sweat it.
     
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    Me either. As much fun as it might be, a good friend is rare and not worth risking losing him. Most of us could get bed partners. It's the emotional connection with a true friend that is rare.
     
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    My life-long best friend is very small--soft he looks smaller than my thumb and hard it looks like a thin 4. We have known each other since we were babies, so we've seen it all. We always played sports together, and I noticed he was usually the last one undressed and in the showers. When I asked him about it, he told me why. I'd seen his dick thousands of times before that, but never thought of his dick size because he was such a close friend. He knew I was larger than most and has made a few comments about it, but I've always played it off...but one thing we did have a big laugh about was him saying that if he had a small dick, it was a good thing he loved eating pussy.
     
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    That's a shame, I like to consider us Friends...:tongue:
     
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