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I've started seeing this guy, and frankly- he's the largest I've ever been with!

Now, I'm an enthusiastic bottom, but 8x6 is a bit beyond my usual comfort zone. Not that I don't want to learn to please him ;)

We're currently long-distance, and I've got 3 weeks until I see him, so I decided to break out the toys to help myself a) get used to having stuff in there again, and b) get used to having BIG stuff down there.

I have one dildo that's about 8.5/9 inches long (can't remember which) but only about 5" in circumference, and I can take the whole thing, no problems, pain free, and it's great.

I have another one (here) which is significantly shorter, but equal in thickness to D's cock.

The problem: dildo cock heads have ZERO give to them, and I find that the ridges around the head are too...abrupt...and usually end up causing some tearing, no matter how much stretching I do (usually on the way out rather than on the way in).

Are there any good (relatively low in cost) dildos out there that are nice and thick (right around 6" in circumference/2" diameter) that have a smooth transition from head-to-shaft?

Any other general suggestions for an eager bottom looking to give his well-hung man the best sex he's ever had?
 

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schwulboy, My suggesting since my partners have had the same trouble.

It's not how long but how thick since your problem seems to be only the head of the dildo try one like this. it's just a touch smaller around and it's shaped after an uncut cock which tend to have less of a flange which seems to be where you having some issues.

Realistic Dildos - The Adam 8 Inch PleasureSkin Dildo | Healthy and Active

Hope that helps. Let us know how things work out.

Oh BTW my one partner worked at a hospital and used larger and larger syringe covers...that worked.

good luck!
 

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schwulboy, My suggesting since my partners have had the same trouble.

It's not how long but how thick since your problem seems to be only the head of the dildo try one like this. it's just a touch smaller around and it's shaped after an uncut cock which tend to have less of a flange which seems to be where you having some issues.

Realistic Dildos - The Adam 8 Inch PleasureSkin Dildo | Healthy and Active

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Thanks!

Yeah, it's not the fact that there's a flange...it's that it's completely rigid...and thought I want a rock-solid shaft, I don't know of any cocks that have a rock-solid head :p

Do you (or does anyone you know) have experience with the pleasureskin products? how much squeeze do they have? (is the head squishy at all?)

Not bad at all for the price! I'll definitely check it out!
 

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Schwul, I actually have that exact dildo and its quite nice. Feels as close to real as you can get and the head does have a real, life-like "squishy" feeling. It's a pretty good size and feels amazing when you take the entire thing!
I would also suggest trying different plugs, to kind of allow yourself to "open up" a little from the inside out. I have an inflatible buttplug and it works wonders helping me relax to take a larger cock.
 

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You may want to try an Oxballs dildo. They are made of silicone and they have a lot of give to them. They are kind of squishy. Check them out. I have a couple of their butt toys and I really love them!!

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They are a bit pricey, but they are quality toys and they feel great!!
 

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Schwul, I actually have that exact dildo and its quite nice. Feels as close to real as you can get and the head does have a real, life-like "squishy" feeling. It's a pretty good size and feels amazing when you take the entire thing!
I would also suggest trying different plugs, to kind of allow yourself to "open up" a little from the inside out. I have an inflatible buttplug and it works wonders helping me relax to take a larger cock.

TRAY!!! first of all, OMG it's been forever!

That's really good to know! I'll definitely put it at the top of my list, then. And I've definitely been considering a buttplug. I like the idea of an inflatable one...gah, now I have to save up to get new toys!

Thanks!
I hope you're well!
 

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You may want to try an Oxballs dildo. They are made of silicone and they have a lot of give to them. They are kind of squishy. Check them out. I have a couple of their butt toys and I really love them!!

Shop DILDOS by name

They are a bit pricey, but they are quality toys and they feel great!!

Great site! definitely out of my current budget, but definitely saved in my bookmarks :)

thanks!
 

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Try the boss, I have one....you an take any real cock after that....to me years to get that stretched . Now i love THE BOSS