I don't think its being "bad" that makes a man attractive, I think it's the wrong
term for what a lot of women find sexy. I think adventerous, independent, strong,
and with some spirit is what makes it attractive. But I do know what a lot of the
girls mean. I dated this girl Jen about two years ago. Now she was so opposite to
me. She was a real left-wing idealistic world peace type, and Im more right-wing (well more than her), no bullshit straight shooter. Now Im a pretty physical guy, I go to the gym, do martial arts, I'm 6'1 and around 220 pounds. While I don't look for fights, I don't take shit off people or let them back me down. And while this
conflicted with her save the world attitude, as a woman, it turned her on, and we
had such a strong attraction for each other. All her previous boyfriends, from her
description had been kinda wimpy, and even after we broke up, we couldn't keep
our hands off each other and she admitted I was the first guy she had been with
that made her feel like she was with a real man, and not a boy.
But as far as the madonna/whore theory - maybe for some guys they want a slut,
but i would find it a real turn-off if I found out a girl had slept with heaps of guys.
Apart from diseases, to know that she puts such a low value on sex that anybody
will do - yuck - i wouldn't touch her with a barge pole.