There seems to be a void on the internet and this site. There is a lot of discussion about how to achieve great, mind-blowing sex, a lot of bragging about how great each of us is, and a lot of excuse-making by some to to the benefit of those with insecurities, plus a lot of unrealistic stories and machismo.
Let's shelve that momentarily.
I want to hear your more level-headed and honest assessments of your prowess. How "good" are you at sex?
If you think you're an above-average stud in bed, state it plainly. No need to brag. And explain what makes you good.
But for the rest of you.....I want to hear your honest self-assessments (i.e. what does your partner honestly think about your performance in bed?)
And, most interestingly, is anybody here, regardless of size, willing to honestly admit sexual shortcomings? Inability to satisfy a partner? Frustration of sexual struggles? Premature ejaculation issues? Impotence? Low sperm count? Perhaps you fuck, or now realize that in your past you fucked like a jackrabbit? Have any past lovers told you that you weren't very good in bed? Or that you were mediocre? Fear you're not as good as someone else? The need to get your partner off through manual or oral stimulation beforehand? Perhaps they need to use a vibrator in addition to your efforts to keep themselves satisfied? Perhaps you're not that good at going down on your partner? What are your sexual shortcomings? Will you man up and own responsibility for your mediocre or bad sex? Do you wish you were better? Or do you accept it plainly? Have you tried to improve, and if so, how?
Is it an issue now? Or did you have issues in the past? What about your first time at least?
Anyway, I want plain, therapeutic honesty. And admissions.
Let's shelve that momentarily.
I want to hear your more level-headed and honest assessments of your prowess. How "good" are you at sex?
If you think you're an above-average stud in bed, state it plainly. No need to brag. And explain what makes you good.
But for the rest of you.....I want to hear your honest self-assessments (i.e. what does your partner honestly think about your performance in bed?)
And, most interestingly, is anybody here, regardless of size, willing to honestly admit sexual shortcomings? Inability to satisfy a partner? Frustration of sexual struggles? Premature ejaculation issues? Impotence? Low sperm count? Perhaps you fuck, or now realize that in your past you fucked like a jackrabbit? Have any past lovers told you that you weren't very good in bed? Or that you were mediocre? Fear you're not as good as someone else? The need to get your partner off through manual or oral stimulation beforehand? Perhaps they need to use a vibrator in addition to your efforts to keep themselves satisfied? Perhaps you're not that good at going down on your partner? What are your sexual shortcomings? Will you man up and own responsibility for your mediocre or bad sex? Do you wish you were better? Or do you accept it plainly? Have you tried to improve, and if so, how?
Is it an issue now? Or did you have issues in the past? What about your first time at least?
Anyway, I want plain, therapeutic honesty. And admissions.
