good sex with a small penis

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Only an unusual tight lady will say yes. Good sex in a nut shell is lots of friction and pressure, for both partners. Without you really don't have anything.
 

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One was 6 inches and he ranks in the top 3 of the best sexual experiences of my life.
The other is 5 inches, maybe a smidgen over with a beautiful curve, really loved fucking him as well.

I think what enjoyed most about the smaller guys is not only are they easier to deep throat, although I love a challenge :08:, but they were also instantly and incredibly hard. *sigh*
 

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One was 6 inches and he ranks in the top 3 of the best sexual experiences of my life.
The other is 5 inches, maybe a smidgen over with a beautiful curve, really loved fucking him as well.

I think what enjoyed most about the smaller guys is not only are they easier to deep throat, although I love a challenge :08:, but they were also instantly and incredibly hard. *sigh*

But those are average sized penises. What about really small ones, like 4 or even 3 inches?
 

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That could depend on a few things. Some women NEED size to get off, for any number of reasons, which I won't presume to mention. I would imagine, however, that girth certainly plays a large factor if the guy isn't overly long. 6 inches isn't small either, and a decent girth emphasizes that. There are some women who simply need deep penetration to get off, it's just so many factors and everyone has different needs. My own gf likes deep penetration, and I have to go balls deep in her(7.5) to make her cum.
 

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But those are average sized penises. What about really small ones, like 4 or even 3 inches?
I answered the OPs question, honey. Personally, I have no experience with a 3 incher, so you'll have to wait until someone else chimes in (I think CigarBabe mentioned one of her best lovers was around 4 inches) or start a thread that specifically requests experiences within the 3-4 inch range. :shrug:
 

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At a modest 5" I felt very priced out of the market by other men and womens expectations of what a man should be.

Before I woke up to being gay, in my denial years, I tried to be attracted to women but I was very self conscious. If I'd ever manage to find a woman interested in me and we ended up in the bedroom, I kinda knew I wouldn't be able to really please her and the thought of that humiliation made finding women attractive a lot more difficult.

Nice guy but small cock... the her friends know, the embarrassment seems insurmountable.

As a guy, being smaller than average in the cock department IS a disability in life.
 

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5 inches is really not that bad, you just have to work on other things, lots of foreplay. i was with a girl about a year ago who said her biggest was 9 inches and she told me i was a better lover but it wasnt because i was filling her up or anything, she liked the way i touched her. Im about 4 inches maybe slightly larger on a good day and im a pretty big guy with a muscular build so u can imagine the dissapointment a woman feels. I definitly know size matters but there are other factors.
 

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im just curious to know if any women have had good or great sex with a smaller penis? say 5 to 6 inches? what about 4 to 5 inches?
My BF is about 5 inches and we have good sex. He has alot of girth too so that maybe helps. All I know is he is able to bring me to multiple orgasms. I would consider him one of the best lovers I have ever had. :tongue:
 

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Only an unusual tight lady will say yes. Good sex in a nut shell is lots of friction and pressure, for both partners. Without you really don't have anything.

How would you know? Geez.

Some of the best sex I've ever had was with guys that were of average size. So yeah, it's entirely possible.
 

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Maybe the equivient is having sex with a female I was not sure about. It has happened before where I am not sure I even want to go through with it. Im there, and Im thinking, "Do I really want to do this with her?" Its an attraction issue.

Well, I am glad I did because I sure would of missed out on some of the best lays ever. Ultimately, sex is what you make of it and a sexy attitude goes a longer way than looks.

I guess if the same attitude is applied to a "smaller" penis then there are some surprises just waiting to happen, as testified in posts above. Exceptions are the rare cases where a female really does need a larger size to be satisfied. It thinks those are on the rarer side of things.
 

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Yes, technique counts for a lot (for smaller AND for larger sizes). I've never had less than 5, so I can't comment on those sizes.
 

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So if women are saying smaller men are just as satisfying, why does having a smaller cock give men such strong feelings of inadequacy?

Because men are built to penetrate physically and to conquer psychologically. It is in our nature to do so. We equate the two. Therefore in our minds the bigger the dick, the greater the penetration, the greater the pleasure, the greater the conquest. Penis=power=pleasure. If we equate them then we think that the guy with the bigger penis can provide more pleasure. And providing pleasure to our woman is what our manhood revolves around. Fear of failure is what humiliates us.

What we miss though is that women have a different perspective. For example, the in-out that we like so much doesn't provide the optimum friction on the most sensitive spots. Once you understand female sexual anatomy generally and as individualized to the actual flesh and blood woman you are with they teach us and, ideally, we learn.

A big dick may hit more spots and therefore make friction easier in general, but whether it is pleasurable depends, as always, on the lady. The importance we attach to big dicks is not generally as pronounced in the female community.

That's why kindness, interest in her pleasure, learning what works for her and caring about her in more ways than just sexually will turn you into a better lover than some generic guy who has X inches more than you do. Obviously each woman is different, and some may place a premium on big dicks. Most, however, do not, as I understand it, outside of porn sites and enlargement ads.

My comments deal with average sizes. As to how small is "too small" I don't know. At some point there will be a problem with PIV sex if there is not enough friction. That is something only a woman can answer. But so far as the male perspective is concerned and your question, I think what I mentioned above is what is going on.
 
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I dont think there are many women out there that would actually choose a penis under 5 inches, however if feelings are involved im sure they would overlook certain things. Ive been with probably 10 to 15 women ,not a lot compared to some of these other guys, but ive never really had a complaint and could have had a relationship with most of them. There are times i definitly felt inadequate and that they werent getting alot from intercourse. Most of the women i talk to say thickness really matters. I cant really imagine being any smaller, some of these guys that claim to be 3 inches, isnt that close to microdick status?
 

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Tis true...bigger isn't always better. Have been with someone with a shorter penis but he had wonderful girth and was a fantastic lover. But, there is definitely a point at which one is too small - not sure exactly what that would be but probably under 4. I will admit, before actually having sex with someone, if I first saw their penis and it was under 5 inches I'd be disappointed most likely. That might be quickly changed by their love making skills however.
 

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very true I have 5"1/4 and if it was any shorter theres no way i could do anything for a pussy i would guess