If you try AFF, it works best if you get a gold membership, that way women looking for men will see you before silver or standard members. Also, like in life there are many, many more guys looking for girls, so you have to be patient, it will take some time to find a girl. I have found it best to be real on your profile, no fibbing, say what you are and what you are looking for. That said, beware. The site does it's best to monitor, but there are a lot of fakes on there (bots, webcams etc.). I have found that if a profile looks to good to be true, it probably is. The trick is to be real, and be polite. If you write a girl a couple of times and don't hear anything back, don't get mean. The girls on AFF are getting buried in emails from guys saying "you wanna fuck?" or some variation. A good way to find real girls is to go in the chat rooms and again, be polite. It is possible to met real girls. I met my current girlfriend on AFF, but it took a couple of months. Good luck!