Good way to get it big quick for show?

Discussion in 'Underwear, Clothing, and Appearance Issues' started by cobrajet, Dec 18, 2007.

  1. cobrajet

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    Maybe (yeah, more like likely) I'm showing some insecurity by asking, but what the heck ...

    Many times we've had guests visit our home to enjoy the hot tub naked with us. I'm much more of a grower than a shower so contemplating being seen for the first time in the nude, I like to get worked up a little in the bathroom before coming out and dropping my pants. Given that in that situation I'm alone with just a hand, a short bit of time, and the self-imposed "performance pressure" it can be a real challenge. You'd think the anticipation would be enough to get a "rise" going, but I've often found it's just the opposite. I don't have any trouble getting and staying hard in bed, just have found this particular situation to be a challenge. (Yeah, I know .... should just not worry about it. I don't worry it, just like to have things "looking good", and don't mind the positive attention I usually get by having a bigger cock. ).

    Have any of you been in a similar situation where you wanted to get your cock looking nice and big before being seen by another/others? What did you do for yourself that worked quickly? Any foolproof techniques to share?

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    Wear a cockring. It doesn't have to be metal or anything rather weighty or impressive. A simple cockring with a thin diameter is fine and it will be less noticeable.
     
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    try the 'helicopter' getting it flying around may get some extra blood flowin, or how bout hot water to warm it up some?
     
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    I find hot water works almost like cold water. Anybody else?
     
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    use lube.
     
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    I have been in a situation like this.
    When I was getting drunk with a couple of friends. One wanted to play strippoker, and as we were all becoming drunk we started to do this. After a while it became obvious that I was losing, but I wasn't naked yet. So it went to the bathroom to take a piss and made my cock fully hard for a while. Had no problem with this. When I had to take my underwear off, it was still a good semi and the other guys were amazed! One guy didn't want to play any further because he 'didn't have a cock like that'. But later on we became more drunk and we ended up all naked (no jerking or sex). Real great memory :).
     
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    Hmm ... not sure the cock ring would work in this case as my question was more about what people do to get hard fast, not stay hard (which the cock ring should do just fine). Maybe I'm missing something as I've never tried using one?

    The warm water thing sounds interesting, although thinking of how I'd actually get my dick into the warm water presents some logistical issues - dipping it into the sink? - turning on the shower?

    Maybe the lube idea - keeping a small amount in a bathroom drawer or using soap might do the trick.

    Have any of you done anything like this - i.e. got yourself good and big (not necessarily fully erect which would be a little much in some situations) before showing yourself to someone?
     
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    There are different kinds and styles of cock rings, and people respond to them differently. A cock ring that is not too tight will not cause an erection, but for many guys, will keep the penis hanging heavier and fuller.
     
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    are you cut or not, cause I just pull back the old soft top and that acts a bit like a cock ring for me, and is barely noticeable that I'm any different from those who are cut.
     
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    A disceet tug down the length of your dick to get some blood down to the head usually does the trick for me. You can do it in a way that nobody really realizes what you are doing...or they think you are just scratching.

    Another trick is to not take a piss for a while. Mine gets longer/harder the more I have to pee. Drink a lot of water so that you have some pressure to piss and hold it for as long as you can. Eventually, for me, this would lead to a hard-on, so go drain the lizard and keep on drinking!
     
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    Have a look at some porn, enough to enduce a semi, or gently rub your cock through your clothing on the way to the look, or whilst no ones looking to obtain same result - works for me.

    Depends what result you want a wow or a omg
     
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    I understand that bee stings work wonders.
     
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    No one has mention kegels?

    Flex the same muscles that you would to stop the flow of urine when peeing. This will force blood into your penis without you even needing to touch it.
     
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    lorne - sorry, circumsized (ref. my gallery) here, but seems like a cool idea for those that aren't!

    mister_y - that's EXACTLY the sort of situation I'm talking about. Can be a lot of fun to see the reaction. Also, our intent in inviting guests to join us in the hot tub has usually been to loosen everyone up before sex. Nothing like a nice big cock or two in the mix to sort of get this rolling.

    gillette - interesting idea about kegels. I'm starting to do more of those and will have to see if it helps get me harder faster.
     
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    Nobody laughs.
     
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    Oh, whoops ... hehehehehe. There, how's that?
     
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    I used to do this in high school.

    Masturbate to just before you're going to cum. Mine tends to stay in a larger flaccid state for hours and the balls stay tigher and higher, making everything look longer. :x
     
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    How about a quick jelqing session? I find that after jelqing, my penis hangs longer and thicker for several minutes.
     
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