Goods got you down?

Discussion in 'Relationships, Discrimination, and Jealousy' started by choney, Jun 17, 2007.

  1. choney

    choney New Member

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    Anyone ever have issues enough with your size that you were unable to function- aka get it up? I think I am average enough and yet I have a hard time gettin' hard sometimes. I am not sure if it is a result of anxiety or if it is a real physical problem. I can get it up on my own- but have had a hard time keeping the little guy at attention when the time calls for it with someone else. I wonder if I stress too much about my size. Anyone else?
     
  2. whatireallywant

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    It could be stress, or it could be that you have some health issues you may not know about, such as high blood pressure or diabetes. I'd talk to a doctor about it and see if they can determine the cause.
     
  3. viking1

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    My size has caused me much stress over the years. Not to the point of not being able to function, though. You probably should see a doctor.
     
  4. QuiteOne

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    At your age, I'd assume it's more of a mental thing. That shouldn't preclude you from speaking with a doctor. It's best to rule out a physical problem. I've personally suffered from issues with maintaining an erection since I was in my mid-30's. I've come to the conclusion it's at least partially mental since I'm in very good health and pills such as Viagra and Cialis don't do a thing for me. I've got brothers that are all well endowed and they have had some level of ED issues themselves so I'm also inclined to think it's a genetic thing. For me I've learned to just quit worrying about it and just enjoy sex to the best of my ability. One thing is true for almost all men... if you concentrate too much on trying to keep an erection, you'll most certainly lose it.
     
  5. B_ScaredLittleBoy

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    Performance anxiety. You think your penis is not good enough. Or if you think too much about not getting it up...you WON'T get it up. You have to free your mind and concentrate on the person your with...then you will get wood.

    I forget everything when I'm with someone...its nice. Or was haha. The only times I haven't got it up are when I've been VERY drunk.
     
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