Got caught jacking it by roomie last night

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So fucking embarrassing. He came home earlier than I thought and caught me in the living room. He didn't say anything. Just kept talking on the phone. Somehow in porn it always seems so much hotter to get walked in on, but this wasn't the case at all last night. I wouldn't mind hearing about others' experiences.
 

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It's no big deal. You are both guys and I'm sure he understands, but you didn't say did you stop or did you keep going and bust a nut?
 

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I don't know how I'd respond if I walked in on someone. I think he tried to preserve your dignity by acting non-challant (spelling?). If you are comfortable talking with him about such issues I would discuss it and find a way to ensure your privacy in the future with some signal.

How did you handle it (the walk-in I mean) and did you talk at all about it?
 

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So fucking embarrassing. He came home earlier than I thought and caught me in the living room. He didn't say anything. Just kept talking on the phone. Somehow in porn it always seems so much hotter to get walked in on, but this wasn't the case at all last night. I wouldn't mind hearing about others' experiences.

Damn, how come I never have roommates like you?! :cool:
 

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So fucking embarrassing. He came home earlier than I thought and caught me in the living room. He didn't say anything. Just kept talking on the phone. Somehow in porn it always seems so much hotter to get walked in on, but this wasn't the case at all last night. I wouldn't mind hearing about others' experiences.

Looking at your pictures he hardly could have missed it.
If you haven't yet discussed it, maybe you should tell him that you need some privacy now and than and that you will respect his privacy too. He has his needs too so it could happen also that you walk in while he is jacking it.
Don't forget to thank him for the way he was reacting!

In other treads about this subject I have written that if you have to share the same space and you are both young men, you have to talk about this. Masturbating is very common. Better to know that you can do that while your roomie can hear or even see you.
 

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How did you handle it (the walk-in I mean) and did you talk at all about it?[/quote]

nah we didn't talk about it. he just said later on, "dude that doesn't bother me," but i didn't respond.
 

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wouldn't it make more sense to do it in your bedroom if privacy was a concern?

not to insinuate or anything, but to just play devil's advocate, is it possible that subconsciously you may have wanted to be caught?
 

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I definitely stopped immediately. He didn't get to see me erect. I was putting it back in my pants as the door was opening.

What the hell? I thought he came in while you were in the act!! I mean, don't get me wrong, I'm happy he didn't catch you but, what were you embarrassed about? Was it obvious what you were doing? Did you have porn on?

I remember coming in to my apt after leaving my nephew all day. When I opened the door he immediately sat forward and had a stupid look on his face. It was obvious he was pleasuring himself.

Doesn't seem like you have much to worry about!
 

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We're two artists sharing a studio together to save money. I've since found a few other ways to avoid getting caught: jacking in the bathroom even if I'm home alone or setting up my laptop around the corner so I'll have a few extra seconds to get presentable. lol.