Great bf but curious

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I like most if not all other men wish I was bigger. A little longer A little thicker. And if I was, I would wish I was a little longer and a little thicker. It's a man thing. Actually I don't complain about my size but wish..... In bed I have no insecurities what so ever. If you are happy with his size don't bring out the old tape measure if he looks like he isn't goin to be a good 7 inches or better. If he is smaller he will always wonder what you thought when you measured even if you go wow you are big. If you want to try a bigger root, go buy a dildo. Lube it up and have a go at it. If it doesn't drive you wild then throw it away and keep your man that you are happy with. Believe me, size doesn't make a personality on a man that is a jerk.
 

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we've all heard that providing the sex is good, size doesn't matter. if that was true why is it the single biggest issue from men and ALWAYS an issue with women? Look at the number of size charts out there. Average is anything between 4'' and say 10'' with thickness between 4 and 6'' circumference. I have never met anyone who would prefer a 4 by 4. women all know a long fat penis feels better in the hand and looks better. (so i'm told!). This starts the sexual thoughts and leads to great sex. I'm 8x6 and find it impossible to believe a 4''er can do the tricks i can. Even as a fairly straight guy, the sight of a 10''er can be very impressive. So although he may be a great b/f, this is a site about long dicks. Sorry this rambles a bit but the oversized need a mention!

Right on tripod. I'm surprised by the amount of posts on this website that talk about size doesn't necessarily matter etc. And maybe in some cases it doesn't...but come on.

With all things being equal, that is personality, character, looks, communication skills etc, a bigger cock is better. I'm not talking about giant cocks, I'm talking about within the close range of averages. Between a 4 inch cock and a 7 inch cock for example.

I think a lot of the girls that say size doesn't make a difference are ones who have not had the pleasure of a sizable cock. And then there is always the curiosity of what a bigger one feels like. If I were a girl I would hate to go through life never sucking or fucking a nice big cock. Just like as a guy I want to go through life and experience sex with different types of women; black, white, asian, slim, thick, athletic.

I mean how can people really say size doesn't matter? Maybe for a few select women it doesn't, and maybe a few more women than that will claim that it really doesn't because they look at a ton of other attributes first before penis size, but with all those attributes being equal, a man with a nice big cock who can really use it is going to win out above all. Having a big cock can do wonders for a man's self confidence and attitude and can bring lots of perks to a relationship that go beyond just the physical sensations a bigger cock brings to the woman's poonanny. I also don't believe anyone is being degraded here, just celebrated. I sometimes feel like people are too politically correct around here. This is a fing big cock website!
 

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My boyfriend is a great guy and things are going really good. It's not really a problem but I think he might be kinda on the small side. I'm not really sure but he has hinted that someone has said something to him in the past and I sense he's worried about it. The funny thing is that his worrying about it has made me more curious about if size really matters. What is the big difference between a normal or smaller guy and bigger ones. Is it a psychological thing or does it feel better? (Even though my guy may be small, it always feels great.) Does something like a toy make a good substitute and give you the same feeling? Maybe it would be something my bf and i could try to satisfy my curiousity although I'm not sure if it would be rude to bring that up. I'd really like to hear from other women about this. Thanx.

...If ur happy with ur bf why thinking if size matters or not?

Doesnt it matter more if ur sexlife is good or not? As long as the two of U are happy together I dont really understand why U have ur thoughts about size. U say it always feels great.

...and sex is also more than size...

:smile:
 

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sex is about getting sexy isn't it?

Size really shouldn't be an issue, a champagne cork could make you cum if it was attached to right person, vaginas stretch and most of the tingly parts are near the entrance. Satisfaction is 99% mental!

If it curiosity of big cocks, find a bigger cock.

People who can't get turned on without looking at a big cock ("size queens / kings"?) are in a tricky mental state indeed. If you go searching you may never come back.

I think size really doesn't matter because girls rarely actually inspect the contents of a mans underpants, people just fumble in low lighting conditions and put part A into part B.

As for toys, in my personal opinion, if you don't live with him, just try one out secretly - he would go apeshit on the discovery of a dildo or the suggestion of buying one if he's insecure about his size.
 

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sex is about getting sexy isn't it?

Size really shouldn't be an issue, a champagne cork could make you cum if it was attached to right person, vaginas stretch and most of the tingly parts are near the entrance. Satisfaction is 99% mental!

If it curiosity of big cocks, find a bigger cock.

People who can't get turned on without looking at a big cock ("size queens / kings"?) are in a tricky mental state indeed. If you go searching you may never come back.

I think size really doesn't matter because girls rarely actually inspect the contents of a mans underpants, people just fumble in low lighting conditions and put part A into part B.

sex sure is all about getting sexy. If sex is all about size ur on the wrong tracks and and as U say tokyotodoger sex is very mental...though we all have our own turn-ons and sum sure maybe needs the sight and feeling of a big dick to enjoy sex properly.

But I think the majority of us do get the best sex with a partner that we 100% turn on both mentally and physically (bad spelling??)
 

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It does seem to be us guys that bring up this issue.

From what you say it's not physical as you are enjoying it. For me it has always been a two way thing on the physical side. You two sound size compatible so there shouldn't be an issue.

But then we have the psychology. An ex of mine who was perhaps the clearest size queen, wasn't equipped herself to handle big - I didn't enjoy sex with her. Maybe your BF had been with a big girl and now has a complex - you are giving him very good therapy :smile:


Yep..I do think many times men are their worse enemies as advertising themselves short...I do think its is natural after some point the parteners of those men feel curious, as thinking: "He know something I dont.." even if sex is good some men have that constant doubt and may eve annoy some of us as we keep repeting the same thing...

If my ex husband had not issues with his size (and few other issues too) we may were still married. I had no ideia I was not suppose to be drying me up during sex and by doing that I did cum 90% of the time. But the problem he being more experienced I just add to his issues being wet as areminder he was not fit to me...and than I learn to dislike my wetness because of his reactions to it.

Well, later when I experienced larger girth after my divorce I did find my fit in the large average girths where my wetness was not an annoyance and etc. Than today I do have a need and a preference for large girths where the sex will flow with my wetness without interruptions.

I wish you the best Angel and that you allow yourself to feel ok to explore, you are young and with a great life road in front of you.