I'm honestly curious...how does one become involved in that lifestyle? Do they come to you...how does one become a stunt cock or the reverse. Very interesting! Do you have a website you can suggest to read further?
The cuckoldry lifestyle is usually something that evolves through time within a marraige, where the wife has become uber frustrated with the lack of sexual satisfaction by her husband... be it a size issue or a stamina issue, hell it could even be a result of the husband having a submissive nature while she craves a dominant male. Keyword there is "evolves". In my experience, many relationships have been salvaged by adding an element of cuckoldry.
Personally, I'm not married, so I'm not in a 'traditional' cuckold relationship. I guess you could say that I became involved in this particular kink because after realizing that bigger is better for me, I became intrigued with the guys that actually enjoyed being humiliated for their lack of size. Humiliating them is a way I can participate with them on a sexual level and still receive sexual satisfaction, considering that in order to humiliate them, I involve guys with much bigger endowments. In effect, through the activities I participate in with my cucks, I've actually found a use for those lil dicks that I would otherwise not be interested in, so it's a win-win.
(I do have a website, but it's commercial/adult in nature and I don't want to spam a forum I'm very interested in remaining a member of for personal reasons LOL)
Another forum I belong to is on topic, you may
find what you're looking for there.
(Mods, please excuse me giving out another forum's addy, if that's taboo to do, please delete the link but not my membership ok? LOL)
BigA said:
http://www.lpsg.org/women-s-issues/35023-small-penis-humiliation.html?highlight=humiliation
Thanks for the link, BigA. Being new to this board, I hadn't seen that yet. I appreciate the perspective on discussions I wasn't fortunate enough to be involved in. I will finish reading it after my reply here. :redface:
Lordpendragon said:
Cuckoldress, I am glad you are here, a lot of smaller guys do come here looking for exactly what you like - there's nothing makes for a happier relationship than two or more who want the same thing.
Thank you, Lordpendragon. I was honestly a little surprised
(although I should know better by now LOL) when I started getting PM's from those who knowingly didn't meet my "size requirements"... looking to chat. A good bull is hard to find (also good to find btw!), that is why I landed here at the suggestion of one of my phone friends.
Kinks are kinks... they're odd, they're different, and they get us off. If they were common, or well understood, they wouldn't be as exciting IMO. It's a wonderful thing when, like LPD said, two people who want the same thing come together
(pun intended).
BigA said:
he got some flack to because people said women would not come here for this reason
Well, I didn't ... but whatcha gonna do? I've seen an almost equal balance of potential bulls vs. cucks here, so I'm very happy to have wound up with you folks, hopefully you'll continue to make me feel welcome. It's so hard being the new girl on the block, especially when you're into what some consider a wild kink.
Kotchanski said:
No he got flack because he assumed quite verbally that those of us who like larger cocks, must by default like humiliating those with smaller cocks. Some of the women here found that not only presumptuous, but rather insulting.
I'll do my best not to encourage that sort of assumption. As I said, I don't enjoy humiliating ALL men with smaller cocks just because... it's a matter of knowing that they want/need/desire that kind of dynamic. The buzz of the cuck dynamic wouldn't be there unless we were both getting off on the exchange. Yes, I can be a ruthless bitch, but only when it serves my best interest and satisfaction LOL.
Kotchanski said:
Welcome to the site, I'm sure you'll find what you're looking for. Have fun
Thank you, I appreciate your honesty, and for the heads up on some of the background I missed by not finding this place sooner! Sorry if my responses seam spuratic, I work crazy hours and get busy without notice. I am enjoying it here though, and am loving reading the threads!