puppychow said:
Love the site, learned alot, overall good stuff.
I'm sure this has been posted before, however, please excuse me being new.
Sexual orientation is a personal choice and I have no beef (no pun intended)with what a person chooses...however, just as a meek suggestion -
Cha..... You know what? It is not a choice, trust me if it was I would be straight, that would have made me life a helluva' lot simpler.
puppychow said:
maybe in the future seperate hetero vs homosexual parts of the forum. This is largly a gay site, and while thats cool, those hetero of us really have to dig and claw through topics that are not gay related.
I don't think you have to dig, you have Women's Issues and Etc. Yes there are a lot of "gay" topics but there are many other topics because of the many straight people here.
puppychow said:
I think in the end it would lend itself to a better forum and lpsg experience, for all parties.
No, I personally like to read about "straight" issues, see how they compare, and it really shows how similar we all are, it also cause LPSG to be a great place for all people.
puppychow said:
there was nothing homophobic about my post Hickboy, no need to get all upset. I think most would agree.
I don't, your idea of separating people is something that could be taken that way, this idea could also represent that you would like a homosexual area of your favorite restaurant or bar, because if there in your area it causes a problem.
puppychow said:
It is a fact that the majority of posts are gay related. For those of us who are straight, It would be nice to have more of a focused forum experience.
Really, drop the need to push being PC. Nothing I have said is worthy of you getting angry, nor fodder for discussing theories of what causes gender preferences.
Well it seems you could learn something from looking into the lives of others. Also what you said about it being a "choice" is completely crazy and so yes it is worthy of being brought up, and it is going to make people angry.
puppychow said:
it's not about versus anyone. i do not see how a couple of subforums would hurt the community.
Because it would separate people, it would break apart what LPSG is, a place for everyone together to get support, many times a homosexual person has helped a straight person or straight person has helped a homosexual.
puppychow said:
one can be really turned off by homosexual topics without being a bigot. I hope theres people who can awknowledge this.
This site is not a place for you to "get off" its a SUPPORT group, so it does not matter if it "turns you off"
puppychow said:
thats what moderators are for, no?
No
puppychow said:
understood, however, it's just a bit frustrating when gay topics really turn one off, and when they seem to dominate the forums...many topic subject lines are vauge and then go into homosexual topics - topics that I, and i'm sure others would simply like to avoid when possible, but with the current setup, thats not possible.
Again, this site is not about turning you on or off, its for support, if you want to avoid homosexual topics, leave.
puppychow said:
then maybe this is the wrong site for me. but if truth in advertising and integrity is important to the mods/admins, then this should be known as a gay site.
most of the topics pertain to such topics.
If you think its the wrong site for you, it is. I don't know what you want them to do, stamp "Gay" all over the site? They won't do that because its not a gay site even if most of the posts are about said topics, its about getting support, calling it a "gay" site would keep away many people that could become a good member.
Is that clear?