Greetings from South Africa

Discussion in 'New Member Introductions' started by Doorstop, Nov 30, 2008.

  1. Doorstop

    Doorstop New Member

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    Hey all :)

    I'm polite, so I thought I'd introduce myself before I start posting here. So, hey! :biggrin1: This is going to be a long introduction, because I will be regular poster here!

    I'll make a post in the PE forum just now to really get things going, but I thought I'd get some things out the way so you know what you're dealing with.

    I'm currently 5.1" NBPEL, and 5.5" EG, measured last night before my first real session of PE. Hence the nickname. :biggrin1: I don't bother even trying to measure flaccid stuff because for one, it varies wildly between an inch and four inches, and two because it doesn't really concern me. It's enough of a bother already, to be honest. I usually find myself feeling uncomfortable most of the day in boxers.

    Reasons for being here. I've been looking at these forums for a few months now, and have seen what's possible with PE. I've never thought that PE wasn't possible, coming from a gym background. I just figured that if you could make your muscles bigger by stressing them, why not the penis? I want to be between 7" and 8" at this point. I haven't made a set length because I'm sure that once I'm 7", I'll decide whether 8" is worthwhile. So for now my goal is 7". Plus I don't want to have a penis, that after all my effort, won't be a very pleasant experience in bed. I know this a rather lofty goal, and some of you will say it isn't plausible, but I know that it's a matter of when your routine stops seeing gains for a period of say 4 weeks, you need a different routine. As for girth, I know that by doing PE I'm bound to make girth gains, so I'll take what I can get, but you'll probably see me on these forums asking for length-only exercises if it tips over the 6" mark. :biggrin1: Other reasons for wanting a larger penis, I guess, is that I'm 6'4" tall, have size 13 feet, large hands, am a regular gym-goer, and am heading towards a body that weighs 85-90kg but with almost zero fat. Having a small penis just doesn't feel right. I think by having it, I'll feel more 'in proportion' and that having a larger penis will give me a confidence boost.

    I also have a few erectile concerns, at age 20. This is a fairly recent thing, though, so I haven't passed it up as being a 'stage'. I find it takes a long time to attain a really hard erection, most of the time I just have a 70-80% erection. Sometimes I even lose my erection completely while masturbating. Morning wood is abysmal, I sometimes wake up with a completely flaccid penis or one that's probably 30% erect. I'm hoping that by doing PE and related exercies, I'll regain my erection quality. I have a question with regards to this though, would masturbating 1-3 times a day cause these issues?

    I also have a few psychological concerns. I've been pretty much addicted to porn since the age of 12. I was introduced to it by a complete stranger on some chat forum all those years back, and I still remember it as been a *ahem* woman and a cucumber. The second image was a nude woman on a motorbike. Since then, things have gone downhill. I can only attain the rock-hard erections I seek when I'm viewing porn, and as soon as I stop viewing it while having an erection (to head for the bathroom :rolleyes:), the erection subsides rapidly, even if I continue to stimulate it.

    All of these things combined, the relatively short penis, the erection concerns, the porn addiction, have started to give me a bit of a complex. I have rather intense sexual inhibition, and at age 20, while still acceptable, I'm still a virgin. I find it difficult to even kiss a girl. :redface: I have thoughts of my first sexual encounter being rather embarrassing, whether it be because of having a short penis, or not lasting half a day in bed, or not being turned on by her because of porn. :frown1:

    So, I've come onto these forums to seek support for sorting out all 3 of my issues. 4, actually, one being excessive masturbation in my view.

    So, my goals:

    1) 7" NBPEL, timeframe undefined. 8" NBPEL if I want it after getting to 7".
    2) 6" girth minimum.
    3) Sorting out my erection issues. Want hard morning wood!
    4) Masturbating only once a week.
    5) Coming clean of a porn addiction that has riddled me since childhood.

    I will make a post in the PE section that I will update once every 2 weeks, with my routine, thoughts, problems/concerns, and questions.

    Mentally, I'm hoping that by having a larger penis and by restoring my erections I'll have more confidence when it comes to progressing physically with women. I'd be lying if I said I didn't want women to think I was hung, or talk about it, or to be known amongst my male friends that I'm packing, but that's more of a benefit than a requirement. :biggrin1: I'm sure that in the back of my head by body is holding off physically so I don't have to risk embarrassment. I strongly believe that by viewing porn multiple times daily, I have formed social anxiety and nervousness around women, so I'll be letting you guys know how things progress on that front as well. Also, my perceptions of a normal penis have been severely warped by porn, but by being a member here I've seen that having a 7 or 8" penis is actually run-of-the-mill type stuff and women find them pleasurable, girth being a huge bonus and something I have on my side. :biggrin1: I'm glad that I don't have to have a 10" knocker to blow her hair back, and that my goal is completely attainable.

    Thanks for giving me this opportunity. :biggrin1: Please, any comments, support or questions would be very welcome at this stage.

    Rob.
     
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  2. B_henry miller

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    I don't have any advice, bro. Just wanted to welcome you.
     
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    Welcome to the site, that's quite an intro! :smile:
     
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    Hi there doorstop. Welcome here. All that I can tell you is that the addiction to porn can have an influence on your normal sexual interaction with your partner because your partner cannot perform like the porn models. Be content with what you have and I believe that your desires and dreams will become a reality.
     
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    Hi Rob, I hope you'll find the advice you're looking for. Welcome to LPSG.
     
  6. 8wayup

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    Welcome, and enjoy your homework.
     
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    Welcome.
     
  8. parchissi

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    Wow. I need to 'digest' your inital introduction before I will comment. In the mean time - its good to see you here and welcome to lpsg. You will be sure to make some good friends here.
     
  9. CyrusV4

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    Hi Rob,
    My advice, is to approach a professional Courtesan, let her know about your fear of intercourse, let her help you through your first encounter with a woman.
    I can recommend one VERY good lady who has helped a number of youngsters, introduced them to sex, and they all were very happy with her services... This is NOT a prostitute...
    She is a professional and understands exactly what you are going through, and knows how to deal with this with discretion.
    In which city are you?
    Regards,
    cyrus
     
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