Just wanted to say Hi and to let you all know I am pleased to have found this site. I will be 54 on Sunday and I am 9 x 7. My wife and I have been married 32 years and no matter how long of a foreplay session we have, I always end up tearing her at her episiotomy. Then, we have to wait two to three weeks for it to heal before we can resume. We fill this time in with other mind pleasing activities though. All the same, I feel so bad for her when I tear her. She is still amazed at the size and it is always like the "first-time" with each other even to this day. Which I believe to be so special.