Grindr- Have I been blocked?

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I didn't think grindr was for anything but a one time experience haha...

No, actually it's all about the "fantasy" of connecting up. When it gets real and they commit to meeting, about 98% of the time guys will bail and never show up because reality is in total conflict with fantasy.
 

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Ok throwing in my Grindr experience out there. I chatted with a guy on the app and we eventually did end up hooking up (Not my usually thing by the way). But after it was over we ended up talking and exchanging numbers and him telling me over and over and over that he wanted us to see each other on a regular basis. I called him once since hooking up with him and the conversation seemed ok. And he continued to tell me how much he really wanted to see me again soon and I told him I would love to. Now I see him on Grindr quite often but he never IM me and a few times he has even gotten off when I got on. But he has not blocked me.
I was the last one to make contact and I feel that the ball is now in his court. Should I just block him and move on since he seems to be avoiding me now.
And when thinking back to the experience I didn't pressure him or give him the impression that I was looking for a LTR out of it. He was the one that was very geared up at forming a relationship out of it. So I said what the hell, he's a nice guy that I have a lot in common with. I didn't even find him cute. So should i block and move on or just wait for him to contact me again (assuming he would) and then go off on him and block him?
 

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here's a Grindr question: if a guy blocks you, does he disappear? Or does he constantly show up, but with the Offline status?

I ask, because there's a guy on there I had some fun with, and he still pops up, and his location changes, but he never seems to actually be on . . . . Have I been blocked?
 

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here's a Grindr question: if a guy blocks you, does he disappear? Or does he constantly show up, but with the Offline status?

I ask, because there's a guy on there I had some fun with, and he still pops up, and his location changes, but he never seems to actually be on . . . . Have I been blocked?

Off topic but I want more updates from your site!:biggrin1:
 

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here's a Grindr question: if a guy blocks you, does he disappear? Or does he constantly show up, but with the Offline status?

I ask, because there's a guy on there I had some fun with, and he still pops up, and his location changes, but he never seems to actually be on . . . . Have I been blocked?

He didn't block you. His profile would never appear on your phone if he blocked you. You happen to log on when he's offline.

Most guys have moved on from Grindr to Jackd. Grindr is so buggy and the limitations are annoying (max view of 200 profiles for the free version, and only allowing one image in your profile).
 

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I have been blocked by Grindr because of naked pics. What can I do to go back on my profile?. I have reinstalled the app so many times but nothing happened. I want help