Inwood: I've read one or two other topics that kind of touch on this but not quite. Being new to this group and basically never before joined any other group what are the "rules" if someone sounds interesting? (Yes, I read someone's stats and my breath got a little heavier--and not just because of that ONE particular stat.) I know there's a personals section but...well...it's seems to be real meatmarkety . I was hoping to just see what this other person is like and see if we would hit it off personally. If that worked then I guess I'd see what happens after that. One other topic mentioned that the group thought only two people had actually met through the group. Is this something the group feels is a part of what the site is about or not? Anyway, any feedback would be welcome.