Group Genital Massage -- anyone heard of it?

Discussion in 'Relationships, Discrimination, and Jealousy' started by ferdthebull, Oct 12, 2006.

  1. ferdthebull

    ferdthebull New Member

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    True story: I was in a midwestern city at a party with 8 or so attractive gay guys in their mid-40s who all knew each other. (Other people were there also.)

    At some point in the evening, I asked how these 8 guys knew each other, and I got this response (blushing): they knew each other from a "genital massage" group/class they had all participated in for many years together.

    On top of thinking this was terribly hot, I was overcome with curiosity, but unfortunately I didn't get to ask all the questions I had because the setting wasn't right. I did manage to learn that this group had started as an alternative to unprotected sex, at a time when the AIDS epidemic was just beginning and people were trying to find safe ways of getting each other off. But besides that, I didn't get much information. I wanted to know, who started this class/group? Was it simply mutual j/o, or did it have other (nonsexual) goals as well? Do these groups still exist elsewhere? How does one find them? Are they open to strangers and new pupils?

    I love the idea of getting to play with a bunch of other guy's dicks in a totally safe setting, especially with "regulars" whom you get to know. But how do you maintain 8-way friendship (as these men apparently did) and relationships within the group (there were two steady couples) and avoid jealousy/competition when in the "massage" setting?

    I thought the whole thing sounded fascinating. Has anyone ever heard of this? Done it? Interested in any information you have.

    Thanks!



    p.s. first post!
     
  2. naughty

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    Congrats on your first post!

    Actually, that does sound fascinating. It especially is since it seems that the individuals involved can keep the interaction at a level where possesiveness and jealousy has not occured... YET.
     
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    i think they called it "genital massage" because jerk off sounds ...lewd?

    prolly something like the New York Jacks? i think that's where it started from what i've read. i think there's one in SF, too.

    basically, a masturbation club, similar to a bath house but only masturbation/circle jerks.

    i have no experienced one myself, but i read a lot online, lol.
     
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    hello, I do not know whether is the same group but have a look in this :
    www.bodyelectric.org , it is not supposed to be just a "masturbation club", looks interesting ... have fun and if you go there please do not miss to make a feed back
     
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    There is such a thing as a penis massage. I don't pull on my penis, that feels painful to me, and that is not how I get off. I can watch porn or think of erotic stuff as I rub my ball sac, my nipples, the glans and shaft of the penis until I ejaculate. I have also done this with friends who can get off the same way, possibly after a massage or we just do a mutual penis massage as described to get to ejaculation. There are those persons who masterbate by pulling on their penises and this technique doesn't work on them, re: ejaculation, it seems. I learned from a sensual massage video that a penis massage before sex can help to prolong and intensify sexual intercourse.
     
  6. exwhyzee

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    The group sexual therapy thing is what the movie Shortbus is all about.
     
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