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Many women do not masturbate.
They do not touch their vaginas.
Sex is not the same as masturbation; being receptive and having someone fuck you is completely different from exploring your body. Particularly one, as NJ pointed out, is hidden, which is not the only factor. There were classes that taught women masturbation, many of those out there for men?

I am very sexual and it took years masturbating before I was able to learn how to make myself cum, and forget about consistently, that took even longer. With men it is there and hard... obvious. With women it is more exploring and getting to know your body, then you have to relax and let yourself cum once you find your spots. Some women never find their spots and never orgasm, or orgasm only after a lot of work, and give up because nothing happened. I'm not saying they are frigid, just not masturbators.

Wow woman body is really more complicated that most men thought !!!
According to most studies or statistics most woman masturbate , not as often as men but most do . Why the woman of the samples would lie saying that they do masturbate?
 

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They all do. They just don't talk about it. :biggrin1:
:261:Ok I'm gonna ruin it for you.... picture your dear old Grandmothers, Mothers,Aunties etc..., all getting togeather for that old fashioned quilting bee and then retireing to the grandroom with some old fastioned lemonade on the table and them having a Grand ole time diddling themselfs :clit: :banned:
 

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Wow woman body is really more complicated that most men thought !!!
According to most studies or statistics most woman masturbate , not as often as men but most do . Why the woman of the samples would lie saying that they do masturbate?
Women's bodies are complicated. If you know some honest women who are not shy, ask them about masturbation how they learned to do it and their habits, you'll learn a lot.

What is most?
I would think it is under 50-60%, which would not mean most.
Also, the majority have tried masturbation at some point, but are they continuing? At what frequency? A few times as a tween and never again? Tried when younger, a few times with a toy, and then maybe here and there?

I know the majority (60+%) of women do not masturbate. I know the frequency is not the same as men. I hope that will change with future generations.
 

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Also want to add that I am in the minority, as I masturbate 4-7 times a week regularly. Regularly meaning since about 17-18ish, with the only time I stopped was an incompatible BC pill that ruined my sex drive. Often I am going a few times a day, and when ovulating, I will have sex and masturbate a few times a day.

Apart from the ovulation part, these numbers are more like a man statistically, not a woman.
 

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Women's bodies are complicated. If you know some honest women who are not shy, ask them about masturbation how they learned to do it and their habits, you'll learn a lot.

What is most?
I would think it is under 50-60%, which would not mean most.
Also, the majority have tried masturbation at some point, but are they continuing? At what frequency? A few times as a tween and never again? Tried when younger, a few times with a toy, and then maybe here and there?

I know the majority (60+%) of women do not masturbate. I know the frequency is not the same as men. I hope that will change with future generations.

Most statistics put the percentage of woman that masturbate around 60% , I don't remember how often per week . I'm really intrigued about the idea that most woman don't masturbate .
 

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Most statistics put the percentage of woman that masturbate around 60% , I don't remember how often per week . I'm really intrigued about the idea that most woman don't masturbate .
Haha, I know every guy thinks women are lying when they deny masturbating. There are many issues with women and self-love. I have fortunately transitioned past all of them. :biggrin1: :wink:

I'm not even mentioning women who lose their sex drive due to hormones, birth control, or other physical ailments, nor women who have suffered fgm.
Just average women who don't do it. I really think it has something to do with hidden genitalia and having to work the clit to get everything going as opposed to having something like morning wood. Anyway, you should research it, I am sure there is more than enough data available.
 

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Most statistics put the percentage of woman that masturbate around 60% , I don't remember how often per week . I'm really intrigued about the idea that most woman don't masturbate .
Why? :confused:

I think too many women have repressive upbringings, and were brought up to believe that masturbation is "dirty" or "wrong". Many of them may still do it, but they won't admit it becuase of their upbringings. I knew a bunch of girls in college who were very uptight about anything sexual, and not only never masturbated, but didn't think women were supposed to enjoy sex at all! :eek: Of course, all, or nearly all, of them came from very conservative religious families, in this case, Catholic.

In my case it took me years to be comfortable with my body sexually, for the reasons highlighted above. The catch is I can't do it with anyone watching. :redface: I have to be alone or I can do it during phone sex. Put a man in the room with me and I dry up like the Sahara.:tongue:
 

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I masturbate every night.
If I didn't I would go out of my cotton pickin mind and start to contort into funny shapes.
I'm pleased to say since I brought my larger toy I was able to ejaculate during a maturbation session for the first time ever.
I was like "YAY ME".
and then I realised that I was laying in a puddle and then it was like "AWWW CRAP!!"
 

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I don't even know that many women who masturbate,

That is sarcasm right?

I highly doubt such clubs exist.

I don't know, I don't think I'd be able to get aroused enough in the company of women. Actually, I'd find it kinda freaky.

I prefer to "do it" in the company of men. Men are ever so nice. I'd go crazy if there weren't men anymore. :tongue:

I have to agree. I would be to self conscious with women. Men, besides it being a turn on for them are much less judgmental which would put me at ease. That said i would still never have the courage to masturbate infront of a room full of men
 

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I think a lot of women would not admit masturbating to their friends or even their boyfriends or husbands. I wonder how many vibrators are sold each year. I'd bet it's at least ten million worldwide. I also think boys do it in their teens because that's when their sex drive is highest, and they keep doing it once they learn. Many women don't explore masturbation until their sex drive increases as they approach 30 years old.
 

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FWIW, if it's done with the hand-held, shower massage set to pulsate, it doesn't count as masturbation. :cool: It's just good hygeine. :smile:

It cleans and gets you off at the same time. :biggrin1::biggrin1:

I am often amazed by the number of men who admit to j/o 4-6 times a day. How do you people hold jobs? Go to school, etc?

I've read some posts that say 10 times on some days.:confused: I don't quite get that. The most for me was 3 times, and that was probably once in my life. :wank:
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I can literally go for months without masturbating or even thinking about masturbating. :cool:

I went a month one time because I had a middle ear infection. I was nauseous, vomiting, lost almost 10 lbs, and felt really horrible.

Perhaps it's a mental thing; but I cannot do it with an audience. That used to drive my ex-bf crazy because he would want to watch and I would just freeze/dry up. :redface: So, no way am I doing it in front of other women. Besides which, I have no interest in seeing other womens vaginas. [/font]

I didn't want this to turn into a masturbation thread. I was just curious about these posts every once in a while regarding masturbation clubs. I'd never heard of any for women. I jerked with some friends in my teens but that was the extent of it for me.

I agree that most woman would find female jerk off clubs as odd or weird . heck I would never participate in males jerk off clubs. I don't feel comfortable of others guys seeing mine.

I agree with both your points.

The frequency of masturbation in woman is considerable lower than males on average but still most woman masturbate.

There's really no way to know for sure. Some women may do it a lot and some hardly ever or never. But I agree that the average is considerably lower for females.

:261:Ok I'm gonna ruin it for you.... picture your dear old Grandmothers, Mothers,Aunties etc..., all getting togeather for that old fashioned quilting bee and then retireing to the grandroom with some old fastioned lemonade on the table and them having a Grand ole time diddling themselfs :clit: :banned:

Yikes. That would be a horrible sight to behold. I hope I don't have a nightmare about that now. There's a line of porn and it's old women fooling around with younger men. .:eek: They're really old, not MILF's.

I think a lot of women would not admit masturbating to their friends or even their boyfriends or husbands. I wonder how many vibrators are sold each year. I'd bet it's at least ten million worldwide.

Yes, they don't talk about it openly, but you're right, there are plenty of vibrators sold.

I also think boys do it in their teens because that's when their sex drive is highest, and they keep doing it once they learn.

It's kind of odd that women and men reach their peaks at different ages.

Many women don't explore masturbation until their sex drive increases as they approach 30 years old.

There's a lot of truth to that, Jovial.
 

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Seemed to be a fairly straight forward post to me?
If you find sarcasm in there, go with it.

In all honesty i did think it was sarcasm. My friends and i are always very open with each when it comes to masturbating. We don't sit and discuss in detail but there are no deep dark secret. So just to read your post saying you dont know women who masturbate is a foreign concept to me.
 
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I live in Tampa, and I would love to participate in a group masturbation for women event. I think that would be awesome! I masturbate daily, its my stress buster! Im sexually active and my lover loves to participate with me. Any others want to put a group together?
 

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Perhaps they do - and don't discuss it with you. For many, it is such a private activity. But you knew that already. :wink:

You know quietguy, I started a thread for the women to list how many times they masturbate. It was a good response, but not as many as I would have liked. Oh well...

But I prefer mutual masturbation with a male than group masturbation with females.
 

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You know quietguy, I started a thread for the women to list how many times they masturbate. It was a good response, but not as many as I would have liked. Oh well...

But I prefer mutual masturbation with a male than group masturbation with females.

Thanks for mentioning that - because it reminds me of one particular joy of mutual masturbation! Mutual masturbation with a new partner is such a wonderful way to learn what pleases him or her! Once somebody learns their own sexual responses, they become the world's expert on how to please their own bodies. If a partner masturbates in front of me, I get to learn from that expert by watching and listening. That makes me become a better lover for that particular partner.

I even ask new partners to take my hand and please themselves with my hand, so I can learn first hand. (pun intended) And then I teach them about how to please me. Once we got the basics, and can bring each other pleasure, we then learn new tricks and techniques together. I found that so useful when working with new partners who were inexperienced, unsure of themselves, or not comfortable with their bodies.

People who felt comfortable masturbating in front of me, and with me, became some of my best lovers.

I suppose if you were in a group of women all masturbating together, you might learn their techniques and then try all that new-found knowledge on yourself!