Group sex/Gang Bang?

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  1. Panda Bear

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    I'm just curious what you ladies think of it. Have you experienced it, and if you have did you enjoy it or were you basicly... "next.... ok you done/ next.."
     
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    Id love to have 2 guys at once but i think it will only ever be a fantasy, by choice
     
  3. whatireallywant

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    I've done it... a MMFM. The only problem is when you obviously are not equally satisfied by all of the men involved. In my case, I was very satisfied by one, quite satisfied by another, but not satisfied at all by the third. I certainly wouldn't want to say that to him or where he could hear, though! :eek:

    I didn't mind that "Next!" aspect. :biggrin1: That was actually part of my longtime fantasies about such a scene. I guess I'm kind of strange that way.
     
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    I think girls that have tried it where both or all guys are relaxed love it and cant wait for the next time... Some simply wont try it as a matter of principle
     
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    Would make for a nice erotic "wet dream," but who would want the terrible "hangover" if it was for real?

    Child support, public embarassment, STDs, AIDS, and who knows what else? Maybe getting thrown in jail?
     
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    Huh?????
     
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    It might be just a matter of semantics; but to me there is a difference between group sex and a gang bang.

    To me group sex brings about images of an intimate sex club atmosphere. Everybody knows everybody at least a little bit and everything is consensual. A gang bang sounds violent, non-consensual; and more like rape which is why it is distasteful to me.
     
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    Group sex is an idea that I abaondoned some time ago; gangbangs never even crossed my mind as they seem gross to me. It's one thing to have one nice session with multiple people but it's another when it's just a whole bunch of sessions with vaginas that get fucked every-whichway.

    It's not sensual at all in my opinion; it's just fucking to fuck. Something I don't do.

    I have a vagina and thus am qualified to respond.
     
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    Yes, there is something of a difference there. I've never done a gang bang and don't want to have anything to do with anything violent and non-consensual.
     
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    I had a partial three-way once when I was in new york. the girls were brits, and we were in the same hotel. We were just out drinking, then...blam! I'm in their room, in one girl, while she does the other. it was fun, SAFE, and I don't think I need to do it again.
     
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    Group sex can be a blast with the right friend, or 2, or 3. But it's best when you all really get to know each other and develop a strong comfort level over time. Not easy, but well worth it if you get to that point.

    Gangbang to me implies some sort of anonymous gratuitous fucking on a large scale. No appeal there.
     
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    I’m surprised that more people have not answered this thread.

    I have had group sex but as I’ve said in my posts before sex is a contact sport and the more the merrier as long as it is done a mature level with the expectations of everyone known.

    If it felt like next, ok you done next I would never do it. Instead it is sensual and highly arousing. I get very turned on by giving head or holding and stroking a big cock while being penetrated. I get very turned on when guys keep switching positions allowing me to experience it all.

    It also arouses me to look at the other men, thinking about all of them wanting me, don’t know how to explain it but it makes me feel hot and also slutty and this turns me on immensely.

    Plus there is a bit of kinkiness when the men turn a little rough and it does, on occasion, turn into a gang bang. Then I am the one being dominated and controlled and if I am in the right mood this is a major turn on.

    Finally cum turns me on and the more men the more cum.

    Now these group sex encounters are not casual they are with men you know and have had sex with before, it is something discussed and agreed upon ahead of time, it is safe and usually much fun for everyone involved.

    As far as having other girls involved I had a few FFM and FFMM in college but after that I was just to selfish, I want the men for myself and I outgrew my bi phase.

     
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    I think the difference between a "gangbang" and "group sex" is this. In "Group Sex" the group, um, has sex. In a gangbang (at least a heterosexual gangbang), there are at least three guys who only have sex with one person, the woman.

    In other words, in group sex, all participants may have sex with one another. In gangbangs, the guys only have sex with the woman.

    I don't know where anyone gets the idea that a gangbang is about non-consentual, violent sex. There are groups in my area where they have gangbangs in sex clubs, and it's all consentual. Some women like it. Some women like being the focus of many men at once.

    If it's not consentual, it's rape -- and you can rape a person under any condition. A great deal of rape probably occurs while the woman is in the missionary position. Does this mean that missionary position is wrong because it can be used as a means of rape?

    Also, there is something known as a "reverse gangbang" where something like a dozen girls go at a guy at once. Rocco Siffredi did a video like this.
     
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    All I have to say is sounds good in fantasy and you know what they say some things are best to stay fantasy. That is exactly what it will be for me.
     
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    I am right there with you. RIGHT there. :smile:
     
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    Upon some thought I don't think I would ever have a group sex session; I at one time advocated such but since sex barely does anything for me now and the idea of sharing someone isn't too appealing as it is I don't think I'd bother.

    Also, Henry, you're partially correct. A gangbang is simply multiple intercourses at the same time requiring at least two seperate instances. So it can be group gangbanging, which would be up to three males to one female multiplied by at least two; of course thinking about that turned me off.
     
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    I don't know if women go through the same shifts, but my opinion about group activities often changes like the weather. Sometimes it seems as if it would be one of the most intense and exciting activities (mfm or gangbang), while other times it seems that it would be completely lacking compared to a one-on-one session.

    In all honesty, when my taste for group activities is at its lowest is after I have been intimate with someone I am having a relationship with. The connection that is made and the passion that is shared when alone with another is immeasurable. This seems to have a nullifying impact upon my lustful desire for being a part of a mfm threesome or gangbang.

    Is this situation similar to what others have experienced?
     
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    I've had two MMF's a long time ago, but in both cases we were all so young we didn't know what the hell we were doing and didn't take advantage of all of the activities that are possible in that type of situation.

    I would imagine that I will probably engage in menange a trois or more sooner or later in my lifetime -- I fantasize about them often, and I think the temptation (for me) is just too strong to resist.
     
  19. vibrationzzz

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    I suppose the name 'Gang Bang' does imply violence, if you where to believe porn sites where it is portrayed as such.....I have been to a couple of Gang Bangs but did not participate. Reasons: observation:tongue:...(otherwise known as a lurker, (newbie)), to quell a curiosity, have a lot of those concerning sex:biggrin1:.. To experience, to learn, to see if I would enjoy the activity......to see first hand how fellow human beings act when the scent of sex is thick in the air, maybe to swallow hard and drool a little......

    When it comes to sex there are things that are definitley off limits to any sane thinking individual or group!....then there is/are the rest, only limited by human imagination. YeeeHaa love imagination:tongue:

    It was an eye opener:eek::eek:...sex in every room, the female is ALWAYS in control, she calls the shots, condoms are ALWAYS used....3to4 males per female. Food/meals are supplied etc.....put it this way, all those participating have a fucking great time....

    I chatted to some of the females and males, they loved it, and the lifestyle.

    For me, it was a turn on to a point..., and maybe... a couple of more drinks and yes....maybe......but I do not think it's my scene (who knows if my opinion will be the same in 6 months...:)eek:shit I'll be the big 50)). I prefer the intimacy and touch in/of good sex...and yup...good ol' imagination:wink:

    Anyway, there is a site here in Aus called brizzybangers.com.au
    Visit it, am sure the admin or members on the site will be happy to chat with you, and this group/club would be indicative of most gang bang groups.

    PS....Happy New Year..
     
  20. shaguar

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    Be sure to invite me. MFM is better when everyone's a switch-hitting slut. I am such a sucker for DP!