Hung_Guy: Ok, well I am sure I still qualify to be on this forum, because when I am hard I am like 10 inches. But when I am soft I shrivel up to like 3 or 4 inches. I really hate this, I am too shy to use public toilets or anything because of it. Is 3 or 4 inches that small? Whenever I see pictures of other soft dicks they always seem thicker and longer. So what can I do to make it bigger when I am soft, I dont have a problem with my hard size, its perfect. Do you think less masturbation will make it appear bigger when I am soft? It seems to work for a short while, but is there anything that will have longer lasting effects? Will it get bigger when soft as I get a bit older?